Bankers still live excessively. I question the intelligence of the decision of Congress to bail out people who still live excessively on my dime. When do I get bailed out???
In fact, I really don't want a bail out. I believe in fending for myself. I believe in paying my bills. I do believe in helping the less fortunate. I do not believe in helping those who are like this in this article. I do not believe in helping people who made the bad financial decisions they made. Even if Congress was at the crux of it all with deregulating home mortgages during the Clinton administration.
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Proverbs...31-8:9.
8 Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves,
for the rights of all who are destitute.
9 Speak up and judge fairly;
defend the rights of the poor and needy.
Proverbs has also been a part of my daily reading and I liked this one from yesterday. I try to live my life this way. I find it is not always appreciated, although it is usually respected. I do try to speak up in a way that is tactful. I will admit tact is something that I lack and my intent to be kind is not always seen when speaking up.
I obtained my translation from Bible Gateway.com
for the rights of all who are destitute.
9 Speak up and judge fairly;
defend the rights of the poor and needy.
Proverbs has also been a part of my daily reading and I liked this one from yesterday. I try to live my life this way. I find it is not always appreciated, although it is usually respected. I do try to speak up in a way that is tactful. I will admit tact is something that I lack and my intent to be kind is not always seen when speaking up.
I obtained my translation from Bible Gateway.com
Revelations... causes nitghtmares.
and I have an overactive imagination. I am keeping up with reading the Bible in one year and December began a daily reading in the book of Revelation. This part of the bible is terrifying to me. It shouldn't be---it just is.
And with my over active imagination I went to bed and dreamed a terrifying dream:
I see a dark ancient shadow and all around me is dark but not dark. There is no dark and no light. It is more brown and gray. The air is swirling around and its windy and yet my person is undisturbed. I am terrified of the dark shadow. I feel as though I am in combat with it yet I am unable to strike it and have a general feeling of unease if this were to happen. Words are the only thing to combat it with. I am unable to speak. My throat is constricted as though someone is strangling me and yet I have no problem breathing, just speaking. There are light beings flying around in the air as I struggle to speak. I have no fear of them. I have a general feeling that they are concerned and upset. I feel as though I am understanding everything backwards and am careful to not say what I need to say backwards because I have a sense that the outcome would be very damaging to myself.
Finally, as I struggle to speak, I am able to draw out the name 'Satan' and a light being quickly stands beside me and holds my hand tightly. I am finally able to say,"Satan, I rebuke you in the name of Christ Jesus." I repeat this over and over all the while holding very tightly the hand of the light being. And all the while thinking that my understanding and what I am saying is somehow backwards.
I have the impression that the dark shadow is ancient and the light beings are young. The shadow is terrifying and the light beings are not. My understanding and what I have said seems backwards to me and I struggle to comprehend correctly.
I wake up with my throat constricted and repeating the mantra. I am neither terrified nor do I feel safe. It is 2:35am. I feel worn out as though I have struggled to climb a tall mountain and not able to breath deeply. I am not confused nor disorientated. I am aware of everything around me which does not cause any emotion such as distress or relief. Life just is. This moment in time just is.
And with my over active imagination I went to bed and dreamed a terrifying dream:
I see a dark ancient shadow and all around me is dark but not dark. There is no dark and no light. It is more brown and gray. The air is swirling around and its windy and yet my person is undisturbed. I am terrified of the dark shadow. I feel as though I am in combat with it yet I am unable to strike it and have a general feeling of unease if this were to happen. Words are the only thing to combat it with. I am unable to speak. My throat is constricted as though someone is strangling me and yet I have no problem breathing, just speaking. There are light beings flying around in the air as I struggle to speak. I have no fear of them. I have a general feeling that they are concerned and upset. I feel as though I am understanding everything backwards and am careful to not say what I need to say backwards because I have a sense that the outcome would be very damaging to myself.
Finally, as I struggle to speak, I am able to draw out the name 'Satan' and a light being quickly stands beside me and holds my hand tightly. I am finally able to say,"Satan, I rebuke you in the name of Christ Jesus." I repeat this over and over all the while holding very tightly the hand of the light being. And all the while thinking that my understanding and what I am saying is somehow backwards.
I have the impression that the dark shadow is ancient and the light beings are young. The shadow is terrifying and the light beings are not. My understanding and what I have said seems backwards to me and I struggle to comprehend correctly.
I wake up with my throat constricted and repeating the mantra. I am neither terrified nor do I feel safe. It is 2:35am. I feel worn out as though I have struggled to climb a tall mountain and not able to breath deeply. I am not confused nor disorientated. I am aware of everything around me which does not cause any emotion such as distress or relief. Life just is. This moment in time just is.
Current read. - Play Dead by Harlan Coben.
I just love the author, Harlan Coben. I have read all of his books. This is his first book he ever wrote and I have been unable to find it since he wrote it in his 20s and it has been out of print. It has recently been re-published and its fantastic. He didn't even do a re-write to it as a lot of authors tend to do, and certainly isn't needed in this case. This is a book you will not be able to put down. I love how Harlan has interwoven all the characters and keeps you guessing and interested. If you need another author to read this would be one to definitely check out. He's fantastic.
Monday, December 27, 2010
Celtic Runes a fake (sorry)... but still fun.
Read here Fake Runes. Must be the same thing about the knots. A con-artist in approximately the 14th century (??-maybe later) tried to sell the Celtic Knots and was going broke until he made up meanings for them and made a ton of money once he placed a meaning with them. Being a sucker for a con-man doesn't end no matter what century you've lived in or are currently living. The only meanings before this time was the different knots stood for the different fisherman's families. So when an accident at sea happened you were able to identify the bodies. Sorry, its truly what the knots were used for. Wow, I'm just full of fun "positive" information today!! I think I am on the rebound for morbid stuff after the lovely full-moon last week. It really was lovely. Something my family would call a 'Harvest Moon,' even though harvest is done now.
Onward...
Still The Runes are a fun parlor game (even if fake) to play and we did on Christmas day. I am: Wunjo- JOY & LIGHT. Does this mean that's fake too???!
Remember, JOY is everlasting whereas happiness is fleeting.
I do feel joyful in my life and have for quite some time even with the not so delightful distractions that I have to deal with occasionally.
I wish you all JOY in your life, today and always!!
Celtic Runes and their meanings.
Onward...
Still The Runes are a fun parlor game (even if fake) to play and we did on Christmas day. I am: Wunjo- JOY & LIGHT. Does this mean that's fake too???!
Remember, JOY is everlasting whereas happiness is fleeting.
I do feel joyful in my life and have for quite some time even with the not so delightful distractions that I have to deal with occasionally.
I wish you all JOY in your life, today and always!!
Celtic Runes and their meanings.
Hats for Sailors...
Adventurs in Paradise-Hats. When the call came out for this from a fellow knitter, I was happy to participate in this adventure. I am incredibly appreciative of all of our military and I happened to have a large Trilobite hat on hand and sent it right away. I love reading Shanti's posts about being the CO of the Decatur. What an interesting life. The pictures of all the hats are great too!
Thank you again to every Sailor and all who serve.
Thank you again to every Sailor and all who serve.
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Chrismtas miracle 2010.
I am sad today so see this blog instead. Bloggess
Its worth reading. Remember: Pay it forward.
Its worth reading. Remember: Pay it forward.
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Girls Night Out...The Peppertree.
There were four of us last night for GNO, and we spent a wonderful evening at a great restaurant, The Peppertree. I surprisingly have never been there and it was well worth going. The wait staff was attentive and pleasant. The food was delicious. I ordered the signature meal the pepper steak with fresh asparagus and a dinner salad in a light vinaigrette dressing. The meal was prepared table-side. Always a plus and creates great ambiance to have your meal cooked where you are sitting. The restaurant itself looked fabulous.
We started with a Red Rock Merlot from Napa Valley for our pre-dinner discussion wine and moved to a tasty Heritage Zinfandel from Sonoma Valley to enjoy with the steak. A person can never go wrong with Napa or Sonoma Valley. The Zin complemented the pepper steak perfectly and the steak is what we all had. From rare to medium-well, and yes, I was the medium-well. No mad cow disease for me. ha And for once the medium-well was really medium-well. I have gone to many a restaurant and usually when asking for medium-well I either get medium or medium-rare. Its a crap shoot when ordering a steak, I tell ya. The steak was topped with a warm chutney and pared well with the steak. I enjoy all the different tastes that well-prepared food provides.
For dessert we had the cherries jubilee, also made table-side, with warmed Grand Mariner to compliment the taste. Mmmm, lovely tastes exploding in your mouth like fireworks. The warm sweet & sour taste of the cherries and sauce with the cold of the sweet vanilla ice cream and a tiny sip of the warm orange of the liquor to run slowly through your mouth as a tantalizing taste afterward. MMMmm, super delish.
The conversation was interesting and intelligent. It centered mostly on what women appreciate most in my opinion--relationships: family, friends, & lovers. There also was a little bit about electronics too and how frustrating they can be. It was fun to catch up on how well everyone was doing. We opened gifts while dessert was being prepared. I had recently found a local artist who made puzzle people & star ornaments and thought they were perfect for that quick gift for people who have everything and at my age most everyone I know has everything. Celeste Welch is the artist and she is a wonderful person, artist. The ornaments were a hit.
From K, I received a plaid shirt and it made me laugh and laugh. The inside joke is that last month I drug K with me to a very dreary concert where we noticed that everyone, and I mean everyone was wearing plaid. Plaid is so IN right now and we of course had fun making fun of that fact. It is so 70s. I am now IN with the IN crowd. ha She also gave me the new Lady Antebellum-Need You Now CD as my real gift but I must confess I can't wait to wear the plaid.
We ended our 3 hour evening feeling pleasantly mentored, relaxed and pleased with the witty, humorous, intelligent conversation stating we needed to do it more often. I do so enjoy getting together with the girls. I always feel so positive afterward. I really recommend a Girls Night Out for everyone. Even you guys out there could benefit from it.
We started with a Red Rock Merlot from Napa Valley for our pre-dinner discussion wine and moved to a tasty Heritage Zinfandel from Sonoma Valley to enjoy with the steak. A person can never go wrong with Napa or Sonoma Valley. The Zin complemented the pepper steak perfectly and the steak is what we all had. From rare to medium-well, and yes, I was the medium-well. No mad cow disease for me. ha And for once the medium-well was really medium-well. I have gone to many a restaurant and usually when asking for medium-well I either get medium or medium-rare. Its a crap shoot when ordering a steak, I tell ya. The steak was topped with a warm chutney and pared well with the steak. I enjoy all the different tastes that well-prepared food provides.
For dessert we had the cherries jubilee, also made table-side, with warmed Grand Mariner to compliment the taste. Mmmm, lovely tastes exploding in your mouth like fireworks. The warm sweet & sour taste of the cherries and sauce with the cold of the sweet vanilla ice cream and a tiny sip of the warm orange of the liquor to run slowly through your mouth as a tantalizing taste afterward. MMMmm, super delish.
The conversation was interesting and intelligent. It centered mostly on what women appreciate most in my opinion--relationships: family, friends, & lovers. There also was a little bit about electronics too and how frustrating they can be. It was fun to catch up on how well everyone was doing. We opened gifts while dessert was being prepared. I had recently found a local artist who made puzzle people & star ornaments and thought they were perfect for that quick gift for people who have everything and at my age most everyone I know has everything. Celeste Welch is the artist and she is a wonderful person, artist. The ornaments were a hit.
From K, I received a plaid shirt and it made me laugh and laugh. The inside joke is that last month I drug K with me to a very dreary concert where we noticed that everyone, and I mean everyone was wearing plaid. Plaid is so IN right now and we of course had fun making fun of that fact. It is so 70s. I am now IN with the IN crowd. ha She also gave me the new Lady Antebellum-Need You Now CD as my real gift but I must confess I can't wait to wear the plaid.
We ended our 3 hour evening feeling pleasantly mentored, relaxed and pleased with the witty, humorous, intelligent conversation stating we needed to do it more often. I do so enjoy getting together with the girls. I always feel so positive afterward. I really recommend a Girls Night Out for everyone. Even you guys out there could benefit from it.
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
The Christmas Fire story...
The Christmas Fire
Thank you Goodnight Gram for providing all of us with thoughts of compassion when we may forget to have some.
Thank you Goodnight Gram for providing all of us with thoughts of compassion when we may forget to have some.
Friday, December 17, 2010
The day after...I am still alive... I am still me.
All the world's a stage...
It truly is amazing the antics allowed in court. No surprise---I lost. On wording and presentation of words. It was in a word...embarrassing. My case was dismissed without prejudice which means I get to start all over (I am actually tempted to begin again just to lose again). It was dismissed because my process server could not remember that day at all. Keep in mind it was over 4 months ago. Do you remember what you were doing on August 12, 2010, at 9:23 pm? I bet you don't. Can you remember what you had for breakfast 4 months ago? how about yesterday even?? Lunch? Dinner? I certainly can't. Or how about a document you created? Do you remember what it was? Most people cannot and do not recall their exact actions. That is what the Return of Service is for.
The magistrate informed me that since he couldn't remember it wasn't good service. It really gets me that the Return of Service, which is used because people cannot remember such things was not good enough. It truly is tempting to go back again and again to her court room and just let her be pissy with me.
I'll have to see how much energy I have because I'm exhausted. I feel as though I've rolled 4 rolls of insulation without the added physical benefit.
Time for rest, recovery and knitting and the Child Support Enforcement Agency to take over from here. End of scene stage right.
It truly is amazing the antics allowed in court. No surprise---I lost. On wording and presentation of words. It was in a word...embarrassing. My case was dismissed without prejudice which means I get to start all over (I am actually tempted to begin again just to lose again). It was dismissed because my process server could not remember that day at all. Keep in mind it was over 4 months ago. Do you remember what you were doing on August 12, 2010, at 9:23 pm? I bet you don't. Can you remember what you had for breakfast 4 months ago? how about yesterday even?? Lunch? Dinner? I certainly can't. Or how about a document you created? Do you remember what it was? Most people cannot and do not recall their exact actions. That is what the Return of Service is for.
The magistrate informed me that since he couldn't remember it wasn't good service. It really gets me that the Return of Service, which is used because people cannot remember such things was not good enough. It truly is tempting to go back again and again to her court room and just let her be pissy with me.
I'll have to see how much energy I have because I'm exhausted. I feel as though I've rolled 4 rolls of insulation without the added physical benefit.
Time for rest, recovery and knitting and the Child Support Enforcement Agency to take over from here. End of scene stage right.
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Goodnight Gram post...endearing.
If it doesn't bring tears and a smile to your face it will be a surprise.
Magic Eight Ball
Magic Eight Ball
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
A funny thing happened on the way to court...
Dearest mom has been subpoena-ed by Mr. X's lawyer. The Subpoena is no good because the service of a subpoena has to be 48 hours before court and that would mean service needs to be complete by 3pm Tuesday and it wasn't.
While I was speaking to my mom it hit me that the only reason why the lawyer did this was to get a paycheck. You see, Mr. X isn't paying his attorney, you and I are. The more work she does the more pay she receives. Mr. X didn't even have to prove he needed an attorney he just said he couldn't pay one and in turn, you and I get to pay for one for him.
Your tax dollars at work paying people to do unnecessary work. My mom was going to be at the hearing anyway. Let's recap how your money is being used: a delay in a hearing; an additional unnecessary hearing; unnecessary additional paperwork; cost of service of paperwork and service is no good--but you still get to pay for it. We've probably paid $1000.00 too much so far and we haven't even gotten to the hearing yet. Keep in mind the magistrate is allowing this abuse and additional unnecessary delays in her courtroom and we pay her too.
All of this could have been resolved in one day and now we are up to two and if things go well for me on Thursday it will add up to 3 days of payment by you and I for an attorney who could have, should have resolved this in one.
Coulda, shoulda, woulda---As her current employer, I don't know about you, but I want a refund.
While I was speaking to my mom it hit me that the only reason why the lawyer did this was to get a paycheck. You see, Mr. X isn't paying his attorney, you and I are. The more work she does the more pay she receives. Mr. X didn't even have to prove he needed an attorney he just said he couldn't pay one and in turn, you and I get to pay for one for him.
Your tax dollars at work paying people to do unnecessary work. My mom was going to be at the hearing anyway. Let's recap how your money is being used: a delay in a hearing; an additional unnecessary hearing; unnecessary additional paperwork; cost of service of paperwork and service is no good--but you still get to pay for it. We've probably paid $1000.00 too much so far and we haven't even gotten to the hearing yet. Keep in mind the magistrate is allowing this abuse and additional unnecessary delays in her courtroom and we pay her too.
All of this could have been resolved in one day and now we are up to two and if things go well for me on Thursday it will add up to 3 days of payment by you and I for an attorney who could have, should have resolved this in one.
Coulda, shoulda, woulda---As her current employer, I don't know about you, but I want a refund.
Court...Dec 16...3pm
Court will be what court will be...
I keep running through my head and out-loud in the mirror regarding what I will say in court. I didn't sleep Monday night. I need to let go what I cannot control. I can only control myself and this hearing is only about proper service. I try not to think about the feeling of being ambushed the last time I was in court by both the magistrate and the lawyer and hope to proceed professionally and respectfully even while wading through the unexpected.
I set four goals for myself regarding this hearing and have completed them all. The main one being attending multiple Toastmaster meetings. I have my questions prepared regarding service; subpoena and waiver issued and signed. I have 3 more additional goals regarding this case and am presently working on those. I remind myself to stay diligent and to keep working. I feel like a turtle and that's ok. Slow and steady as she goes. It does not have to be quick. Even though immediate satisfaction can be gratifying so too can taking your time. The diligence part is trying, exhausting and sometimes discouraging. I try not to second guess myself on issues or wondering if any of this is worth it.
I keep thinking that rotten people seem to get ahead and I am here to remind them (at least one in particular--Mr. X) that you should treat people better.
Slow and steady.
I keep running through my head and out-loud in the mirror regarding what I will say in court. I didn't sleep Monday night. I need to let go what I cannot control. I can only control myself and this hearing is only about proper service. I try not to think about the feeling of being ambushed the last time I was in court by both the magistrate and the lawyer and hope to proceed professionally and respectfully even while wading through the unexpected.
I set four goals for myself regarding this hearing and have completed them all. The main one being attending multiple Toastmaster meetings. I have my questions prepared regarding service; subpoena and waiver issued and signed. I have 3 more additional goals regarding this case and am presently working on those. I remind myself to stay diligent and to keep working. I feel like a turtle and that's ok. Slow and steady as she goes. It does not have to be quick. Even though immediate satisfaction can be gratifying so too can taking your time. The diligence part is trying, exhausting and sometimes discouraging. I try not to second guess myself on issues or wondering if any of this is worth it.
I keep thinking that rotten people seem to get ahead and I am here to remind them (at least one in particular--Mr. X) that you should treat people better.
Slow and steady.
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Toastmasters overal evaluation.
Toastmaster's International overall evaluation of the groups.
I have been immediately welcomed in each and every group. Each group has been friendly, kind and compassionate towards everyone. Always very welcoming, professional and excited to have new comers attend their group. Imparting a safe environment and a learning experience has been an overall underlying implied goal that I received. There has been a topic of the day, a word of the day; speeches, evaluations, um counter, grammarian, table topics (impromptu speeches), awards, and closing.
#1 venue
Atmosphere: members have a wealth of knowledge; very eclectic; friendly, compassionate; welcoming; excited to have guests; family-like atmosphere; surprisingly intimidating due to their extensive knowledge. This group had the largest variance in experience, ie, from retired to current young professionals.
meeting: distracting activities during the meeting such as eating and talking; meeting agenda distracting and ran over. no meeting agenda copy provided. location: in reference to myself very close to home.
Comments: I disliked all the distractions in this meeting and running over time. I like how close to home it is for me.
#2 venue
Atmosphere: professional, friendly; compassionate; welcoming; excited to have guests.
Meeting: meeting agenda fairly organized and timely. meeting agenda provided but ran out.
location: too far north but well worth the travel.
Comments: I liked the atmosphere best in this group; professional and friendly.
#3 venue
Atmosphere: professional, friendly; welcoming;excited to have guest.
Meeting: Well ran meeting transitioned into each area very smoothly and timely. The Toastmaster who ran this meeting was awesome!!! provided an agenda handout.
location: way too far north to travel.
Comments: I enjoyed how well ran the meeting was in this group. I dislike how far away it is for me.
I have missed some meetings due to my inability to read that some groups only meet every other week and also during Holiday festivities some groups choose not to meet at this time. This has been an overall great experience and I hope to join a group some time in January.
I have been immediately welcomed in each and every group. Each group has been friendly, kind and compassionate towards everyone. Always very welcoming, professional and excited to have new comers attend their group. Imparting a safe environment and a learning experience has been an overall underlying implied goal that I received. There has been a topic of the day, a word of the day; speeches, evaluations, um counter, grammarian, table topics (impromptu speeches), awards, and closing.
#1 venue
Atmosphere: members have a wealth of knowledge; very eclectic; friendly, compassionate; welcoming; excited to have guests; family-like atmosphere; surprisingly intimidating due to their extensive knowledge. This group had the largest variance in experience, ie, from retired to current young professionals.
meeting: distracting activities during the meeting such as eating and talking; meeting agenda distracting and ran over. no meeting agenda copy provided. location: in reference to myself very close to home.
Comments: I disliked all the distractions in this meeting and running over time. I like how close to home it is for me.
#2 venue
Atmosphere: professional, friendly; compassionate; welcoming; excited to have guests.
Meeting: meeting agenda fairly organized and timely. meeting agenda provided but ran out.
location: too far north but well worth the travel.
Comments: I liked the atmosphere best in this group; professional and friendly.
#3 venue
Atmosphere: professional, friendly; welcoming;excited to have guest.
Meeting: Well ran meeting transitioned into each area very smoothly and timely. The Toastmaster who ran this meeting was awesome!!! provided an agenda handout.
location: way too far north to travel.
Comments: I enjoyed how well ran the meeting was in this group. I dislike how far away it is for me.
I have missed some meetings due to my inability to read that some groups only meet every other week and also during Holiday festivities some groups choose not to meet at this time. This has been an overall great experience and I hope to join a group some time in January.
Monday, December 13, 2010
Holiday Chocolate Festival at The Broadmoor.
Holiday Chocolate Festival at The Broadmoor. The Broadmoor as always hosted a lovely Holiday Chocolate Festival. There were many booths to go and have a sample. There was live music and while I was there a harpist was playing. A jazz band was scheduled for later. There were multiple truffle booths. A truffle contest. Robin's Chocolates won the truffle contest and rightfully so. Her presentation and most importantly taste was tops. I sampled her Mayan Spice Truffle, yum.
The Broadmoor had the best booth. They offered a flour-less chocolate cake, a sculpted chocolate rose, and the ever most popular chocolate strawberries. They certainly should have had more people making the chocolate roses. One person just was not enough and even three people may not have been enough to keep up. They were beautiful. The chocolate strawberries were the most popular item of the day and had additional choices of sprinkles such as shaved white & dark chocolate, mini M&Ms, or toffee bits. MMMm, delicious.
Patsy's Candies was there and always a popular choice for taffy and English toffee. The Chocolate Bordello booth had the best themed booth and you can guess they were dressed in turn of the prior,prior century clothing. And even had a buxom woman of the night shelf with you guessed it, "the girls" holding the glass shelf.
The wine sampling were desert wines, which means sweet. An apricot muscat, a dark red muscat and a port. All very delicious and tasty sweet. I usually do not care for the sweet desert wines, today was an exception since everything was sweet except for the cheese samples. The fruity wine slush was different and tasty. I liked it too.
There were fudges to sample, dark dark chocolates, truffles of all sorts, toffees and lovely candy treasures. The Dove chocolate booth offered in-home parties which sounded lovely and fun.
Such fun and all samples given were generous--always a plus. I enjoyed all the vendors and the holiday decorations were bountiful and beautiful to encourage the ambiance.
Kudos to The Broadmoor for hosting a wonderful festival.
The Broadmoor had the best booth. They offered a flour-less chocolate cake, a sculpted chocolate rose, and the ever most popular chocolate strawberries. They certainly should have had more people making the chocolate roses. One person just was not enough and even three people may not have been enough to keep up. They were beautiful. The chocolate strawberries were the most popular item of the day and had additional choices of sprinkles such as shaved white & dark chocolate, mini M&Ms, or toffee bits. MMMm, delicious.
Patsy's Candies was there and always a popular choice for taffy and English toffee. The Chocolate Bordello booth had the best themed booth and you can guess they were dressed in turn of the prior,prior century clothing. And even had a buxom woman of the night shelf with you guessed it, "the girls" holding the glass shelf.
The wine sampling were desert wines, which means sweet. An apricot muscat, a dark red muscat and a port. All very delicious and tasty sweet. I usually do not care for the sweet desert wines, today was an exception since everything was sweet except for the cheese samples. The fruity wine slush was different and tasty. I liked it too.
There were fudges to sample, dark dark chocolates, truffles of all sorts, toffees and lovely candy treasures. The Dove chocolate booth offered in-home parties which sounded lovely and fun.
Such fun and all samples given were generous--always a plus. I enjoyed all the vendors and the holiday decorations were bountiful and beautiful to encourage the ambiance.
Kudos to The Broadmoor for hosting a wonderful festival.
Friday, December 10, 2010
Toastmasters...#3.
I was welcomed immediately by the Toastmaster who had the responsibility running the meeting and welcomed personally by others. I ran into a member from last night's group who is also a member of this group. I think she's suspicious of me now. Like a Toastmaster auditor or something. ha
The meeting began on time; very well ran and flowed smoothly through each transition with little or no distractions. The Toastmaster running this meeting was awesome!! The word for today was innumerable meaning countless; and the theme was Christmas-time Disruptions.
The first speaker imparted his message very well. His story telling and descriptive wording placed you in his story. He was nervous and the way I could tell was by his breathlessness. He also stumbled occasionally in his speech as he lost his train of thought because he was nervous. At least that was how it came across. The second speaker was giving a persuasive speech and spoke very well. She even added roll playing in her speech which is very difficult to do. Kudos to her for adding other people to participate in her speech. I really liked the second speaker best but the first speaker was given the best speech award.
The evaluator for the first speech was generous and had little or no criticisms. The second evaluator for the 2nd speech was really good about zeroing in on a substantial improvement that the speaker could make and the main suggestion was to have more enthusiasm at certain points. At first I didn't agree but the more she explained her reasoning she was definitely correct. The speaker is supposed to learn improvements to make.
The Table Topics was centered on the theme for the day, which was Christmas-time Disruptions and very well thought out by the person running this portion of the meeting. The Table Topic Toastmaster took the time to progress the time-period from childhood through teenager, marriage, having young children and then having older children. My topic was "what were the disruptions for myself that my parents had while being a teenager in their home." This was tricky and I was very nervous giving this speech. My speech was 1:16 and I had three 'ums.' Maybe its not like riding a bicycle after all. huh.
The 'um' counter was on top of all the 'um's and the grammar person was generous and spoke only positively. Awards were handed out to the best speech, evaluator and table topic winners.
Good practice for help with my being nervous and thinking on my feet. I enjoyed the meeting and the people and it ended in a timely manner.
The meeting began on time; very well ran and flowed smoothly through each transition with little or no distractions. The Toastmaster running this meeting was awesome!! The word for today was innumerable meaning countless; and the theme was Christmas-time Disruptions.
The first speaker imparted his message very well. His story telling and descriptive wording placed you in his story. He was nervous and the way I could tell was by his breathlessness. He also stumbled occasionally in his speech as he lost his train of thought because he was nervous. At least that was how it came across. The second speaker was giving a persuasive speech and spoke very well. She even added roll playing in her speech which is very difficult to do. Kudos to her for adding other people to participate in her speech. I really liked the second speaker best but the first speaker was given the best speech award.
The evaluator for the first speech was generous and had little or no criticisms. The second evaluator for the 2nd speech was really good about zeroing in on a substantial improvement that the speaker could make and the main suggestion was to have more enthusiasm at certain points. At first I didn't agree but the more she explained her reasoning she was definitely correct. The speaker is supposed to learn improvements to make.
The Table Topics was centered on the theme for the day, which was Christmas-time Disruptions and very well thought out by the person running this portion of the meeting. The Table Topic Toastmaster took the time to progress the time-period from childhood through teenager, marriage, having young children and then having older children. My topic was "what were the disruptions for myself that my parents had while being a teenager in their home." This was tricky and I was very nervous giving this speech. My speech was 1:16 and I had three 'ums.' Maybe its not like riding a bicycle after all. huh.
The 'um' counter was on top of all the 'um's and the grammar person was generous and spoke only positively. Awards were handed out to the best speech, evaluator and table topic winners.
Good practice for help with my being nervous and thinking on my feet. I enjoyed the meeting and the people and it ended in a timely manner.
Thursday, December 9, 2010
Toastmasters...#2.
This was a fun group too. Last night's group was a more business orientated group and had an agenda printed up to hand out, which was nice (although they did run out). Very friendly, very professional, a bit smaller group. The other group was larger and most everyone could speak multiple languages. This group was fun and open and wishing to include everyone in a kind compassionate, businesslike manner as well as learning to speak in public. The main objective of all the groups.
There was less talk in the audience while someone was speaking. They were more organized and presented the objective of Toastmaster's in a quicker more concise manner. They did go over the allotted meeting time but not by much. The other group went over by half an hour. The Toastmaster running last night's meeting was a little discombobulated but handled things well by stating maybe he needed remedial training on how to run a meeting.
There were only two people giving speeches and two evaluators. The speeches were interesting and informative and both speakers knew how to capture their audience and weave the speech to an interesting conclusion. Each evaluator had interesting choices of points to criticize with each presenter.
The word of the day was 'denigrate.' Criticize unfairly; disparage: "there is a tendency to denigrate the poor." The other group's word was vicissitudes. You'll have to look that one up. You get kudos for using the word of the day during the meeting. There is also a topic of the day too.
The Table Top speeches (impromptu speeches given by anyone who wanted to participate) were fun and were centered around the topic of the day which was the telephone. My topic was a poem about the telephone, which I read out loud to the group and then I paraphrased it. Reading it out loud helped with time. (remember you are timed--can't go over and shouldn't be under either). You are allowed 2 minutes mine was 1:53. I was dinged on using a "you know" in my speech although I could have argued it was part of the flow of the presentation instead of a "crutch phrase," especially since I only used it once. Crutch phrases are a no,no and counted against you.
In this group all grammar and crutch phrases/words are counted and the counter writes the name of the person and informs each one of us who did what no,no. The other group did not state who did what. I think the counter missed a lot of crutch phrases and was kind to all of us. It may be embarrassing but it is supposed to be a learning process and was helpful (you know)--ha, ha.
I did not crash and burn this time during my Table Top speech, which pleased me immensely. I was even complimented by the members that they liked my speech. It was nice. Maybe it is like riding a bicycle -- a bit wibbly-wobbly at first but eventually evens out to a smooth, acceptable ride. I do so enjoy speaking in public.
I am bound and determined to be much better in court no matter what.
Here's a link to Toastmasters International. It is a great group and a positive learning experience for anyone who wishes to improve upon your speaking skills whether it is in public or one-on-one.
There was less talk in the audience while someone was speaking. They were more organized and presented the objective of Toastmaster's in a quicker more concise manner. They did go over the allotted meeting time but not by much. The other group went over by half an hour. The Toastmaster running last night's meeting was a little discombobulated but handled things well by stating maybe he needed remedial training on how to run a meeting.
There were only two people giving speeches and two evaluators. The speeches were interesting and informative and both speakers knew how to capture their audience and weave the speech to an interesting conclusion. Each evaluator had interesting choices of points to criticize with each presenter.
The word of the day was 'denigrate.' Criticize unfairly; disparage: "there is a tendency to denigrate the poor." The other group's word was vicissitudes. You'll have to look that one up. You get kudos for using the word of the day during the meeting. There is also a topic of the day too.
The Table Top speeches (impromptu speeches given by anyone who wanted to participate) were fun and were centered around the topic of the day which was the telephone. My topic was a poem about the telephone, which I read out loud to the group and then I paraphrased it. Reading it out loud helped with time. (remember you are timed--can't go over and shouldn't be under either). You are allowed 2 minutes mine was 1:53. I was dinged on using a "you know" in my speech although I could have argued it was part of the flow of the presentation instead of a "crutch phrase," especially since I only used it once. Crutch phrases are a no,no and counted against you.
In this group all grammar and crutch phrases/words are counted and the counter writes the name of the person and informs each one of us who did what no,no. The other group did not state who did what. I think the counter missed a lot of crutch phrases and was kind to all of us. It may be embarrassing but it is supposed to be a learning process and was helpful (you know)--ha, ha.
I did not crash and burn this time during my Table Top speech, which pleased me immensely. I was even complimented by the members that they liked my speech. It was nice. Maybe it is like riding a bicycle -- a bit wibbly-wobbly at first but eventually evens out to a smooth, acceptable ride. I do so enjoy speaking in public.
I am bound and determined to be much better in court no matter what.
Here's a link to Toastmasters International. It is a great group and a positive learning experience for anyone who wishes to improve upon your speaking skills whether it is in public or one-on-one.
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
Tuesday, December 7, 2010
Toastmasters...#1.
Went to my first meeting last night and it was fun. For those of you who do not know Toastmasters it is an international group of people who wish to learn to improve their public speaking skills in a safe considerate environment.
The people were friendly and enjoyable to be around. Oh, my I could do a whole other post on the characters at the meeting---really too funny.
On to the actual speeches and the reason I am here.
There were 3 speakers that night and 3 evaluations. All six people are evaluated by everyone. The first speaker was phenomenal! It was only her 3rd speech given in the group as she is a recent member. I certainly felt sorry for the other two that came after her as she was terrific. The next guy was ok--still needed work. The final lady was very nervous. Although I will state she was able to let us know about her nervousness in a tactful way that eased the audiences tension that we felt for her. All topics chosen were interesting and all evaluations were a great learning experience. The "um"s are counted and appropriate grammar is also evaluated. I think the gentleman counting "um"s missed a lot on the second speaker. That's the thing with "um"s they are very sneaky.
I participated in the round table 2 minute topic. So I got to embarrass myself in front of about 25 people but it helped with application of thinking on my feet and speaking off the top of my head, which is what I desperately need for court. Two minutes feels like FOREVER when its your turn. Trust me it is harder than it sounds and the experience is very humbling.
My topic was "if you had to create a soap opera for television where would the setting be?" You know General Hospital is set around a hospital, etc. As I was speaking to fill a little time I had to finally come to "where" and I chose parachuting. What??? who is this person speaking?? Oh, yeah its me! I know nothing, absolutely nothing about parachuting. All I had stuck in my head was a recent picture received from a vendor regarding a recent parachuting outing he had taken. Don't ask me why I had this vision in my head, I just did. I really tried to let it go, I really did. Please note for future reference: stick with what you do know. I mean why didn't I say knitting or farming? Something I KNOW! ARRGH!! I decided to go all out crazy and go overboard into the ridiculous. After finishing, there was a decided hush in the group (deer in the headlight look) and then a "well, ok--moving right along". You get the picture--really funny!!
I am hoping the more a fool I can make of myself at these meetings the better off I'll be in my actual forum of the courtroom and less foolish.
One meeting down---7 more to go and 7 more to write about. Wish me luck.
The people were friendly and enjoyable to be around. Oh, my I could do a whole other post on the characters at the meeting---really too funny.
On to the actual speeches and the reason I am here.
There were 3 speakers that night and 3 evaluations. All six people are evaluated by everyone. The first speaker was phenomenal! It was only her 3rd speech given in the group as she is a recent member. I certainly felt sorry for the other two that came after her as she was terrific. The next guy was ok--still needed work. The final lady was very nervous. Although I will state she was able to let us know about her nervousness in a tactful way that eased the audiences tension that we felt for her. All topics chosen were interesting and all evaluations were a great learning experience. The "um"s are counted and appropriate grammar is also evaluated. I think the gentleman counting "um"s missed a lot on the second speaker. That's the thing with "um"s they are very sneaky.
I participated in the round table 2 minute topic. So I got to embarrass myself in front of about 25 people but it helped with application of thinking on my feet and speaking off the top of my head, which is what I desperately need for court. Two minutes feels like FOREVER when its your turn. Trust me it is harder than it sounds and the experience is very humbling.
My topic was "if you had to create a soap opera for television where would the setting be?" You know General Hospital is set around a hospital, etc. As I was speaking to fill a little time I had to finally come to "where" and I chose parachuting. What??? who is this person speaking?? Oh, yeah its me! I know nothing, absolutely nothing about parachuting. All I had stuck in my head was a recent picture received from a vendor regarding a recent parachuting outing he had taken. Don't ask me why I had this vision in my head, I just did. I really tried to let it go, I really did. Please note for future reference: stick with what you do know. I mean why didn't I say knitting or farming? Something I KNOW! ARRGH!! I decided to go all out crazy and go overboard into the ridiculous. After finishing, there was a decided hush in the group (deer in the headlight look) and then a "well, ok--moving right along". You get the picture--really funny!!
I am hoping the more a fool I can make of myself at these meetings the better off I'll be in my actual forum of the courtroom and less foolish.
One meeting down---7 more to go and 7 more to write about. Wish me luck.
Monday, December 6, 2010
Current read.
Law of the Garbage Truck
This is one of the books I am currently reading. I enjoy how well written it is and its very easy to apply. Well, that is, if you WANT to make certain changes.
Preparing for Court...
I have 10 days (EEEK!!!) to prepare for court. This will actually be a simple hearing as its only about service. Still yikes. If I loose on service then I don't get to pass go or collect my money. It will end here. (kind of--at least the contempt part). Actually the coolio best part of sending Mr. X to jail ends here. AACK, slap me, is that mean or what??? Forgive me, I am only human.
Things I am doing:
1. contacted process server.
2. Issued subpoena.
3. go to a Toastmaster's meeting (as many as possible) to be able to speak in public better. I really believe this will help with thinking on my feet. I won't have to deal with my nervousness as much and will be able to handle (hopefully) issues that may be brought up. Like I certainly should have with the service issue. If only I hadn't been so nervous I could have brought up the arraignment hearing--as that is where the issue of service should have been brought up. du-uh.
4. remember serving Mr. X a second time if the first should fail me. And remember to bring it up at this hearing.
Things I am doing:
1. contacted process server.
2. Issued subpoena.
3. go to a Toastmaster's meeting (as many as possible) to be able to speak in public better. I really believe this will help with thinking on my feet. I won't have to deal with my nervousness as much and will be able to handle (hopefully) issues that may be brought up. Like I certainly should have with the service issue. If only I hadn't been so nervous I could have brought up the arraignment hearing--as that is where the issue of service should have been brought up. du-uh.
4. remember serving Mr. X a second time if the first should fail me. And remember to bring it up at this hearing.
Friday, December 3, 2010
holiday projects.
There are some really cute holiday projects out there.
Advent calendar scarf 2010 is very pretty.
smitten from Knit Picks. You can use these as ornaments or as shown on Knit Picks as an advent calendar. Very cute.
I also saw someone used mini knitted envelopes for an advent calendar. All great ideas.
This year is one of the first years that I am actually looking forward to Christmas. I don't really know why. I have even thought to actually put up a tree and get out my wonderful ornament collection, which I started in 1980 and haven't seen for a few years now.
My plan for this Holiday Season is to pay my good fortune forward this year as I have recently been the recipient of kindness from different avenues and I appreciate it. Actually this is something I do throughout the year, it really doesn't have to be a holiday. I have a loving mother, a great DD, a job, a home, a car, a cat, and plenty of healthy food.
At work I had my department volunteer and adopt a senior at a nursing home. It was fun going around and obtaining the requested items. The gentleman wished for a lap throw and a book on Greek history. Barnes & Nobel had a good selection on Greek history and I came away with a self improvement book for myself too. I took a card around with the gifts so everyone would sign the card and see what we provided. The department stepped up to the plate and helped out with the cost of it all too, which is nice to not have to foot the bill for the whole thing as I expected I might (and didn't mind doing).
I look forward to helping out where and when I see a need.
Enjoy your day and think about "paying kindness forward"!
Advent calendar scarf 2010 is very pretty.
smitten from Knit Picks. You can use these as ornaments or as shown on Knit Picks as an advent calendar. Very cute.
I also saw someone used mini knitted envelopes for an advent calendar. All great ideas.
This year is one of the first years that I am actually looking forward to Christmas. I don't really know why. I have even thought to actually put up a tree and get out my wonderful ornament collection, which I started in 1980 and haven't seen for a few years now.
My plan for this Holiday Season is to pay my good fortune forward this year as I have recently been the recipient of kindness from different avenues and I appreciate it. Actually this is something I do throughout the year, it really doesn't have to be a holiday. I have a loving mother, a great DD, a job, a home, a car, a cat, and plenty of healthy food.
At work I had my department volunteer and adopt a senior at a nursing home. It was fun going around and obtaining the requested items. The gentleman wished for a lap throw and a book on Greek history. Barnes & Nobel had a good selection on Greek history and I came away with a self improvement book for myself too. I took a card around with the gifts so everyone would sign the card and see what we provided. The department stepped up to the plate and helped out with the cost of it all too, which is nice to not have to foot the bill for the whole thing as I expected I might (and didn't mind doing).
I look forward to helping out where and when I see a need.
Enjoy your day and think about "paying kindness forward"!
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Proverbs...
comes to my mind today. Specifically two: the one regarding the dog that keeps returning to its own vomit and the other about the sow that is washed clean and then returns to the mud to wallow in it again and again.
That's me --- the sow or dog, take your pick. I just keep repeating the same hurtful behavior and cannot seem to STOP. I am tired of being the sow. I am tired of the mud. I am tired of the filth. I really don't care for the taste of vomit.
I am tired of the same bad habit. It is time to stop and stop now.
That's me --- the sow or dog, take your pick. I just keep repeating the same hurtful behavior and cannot seem to STOP. I am tired of being the sow. I am tired of the mud. I am tired of the filth. I really don't care for the taste of vomit.
I am tired of the same bad habit. It is time to stop and stop now.
Monday, November 29, 2010
5 days...
The past 5 days have been in a word a...whirlwind. I won't go into too much detail as I am still reeling from it. Thanksgiving went well. Friday I was able to finish the insulation with a little help from a surprising resource. Friday night hockey and free seats given to us while standing in line. Right on the ice too. Amazing kindness. I plan to pass it on. Saturday golf and I shot a cool 97 on 18 holes my average is usually a 106. US Women's Open here I come as an amateur if I can keep that up. Sunday knitting and painful realizations regarding myself, my character and the painful improvements I that I so desperately need to make.
Deep breath.
Deep breath.
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Thanksgiving...
Is tomorrow in the United States of America and it got me thinking about what I am thankful for. I put this list together a couple of days ago and thought that I would add to it. I like it the way it is. Without further adieu, and following everyone else's blog (why should I be different??) here are some things that I am thankful for:
I am thankful for...
when small children can still give you a winning smile even though they are being yelled at by their parent in the grocery store.
a loving mother.
DD.
best friends.
understanding people.
children's laughter.
the sounds of children playing.
music. (good, bad and dreary)
things well-written.
intelligence. (which is questionable at times)
art.
mistakes.
the ability to learn. (even though sometimes it takes awhile)
knitting.
yarn. (that's really good and soft and beautiful)
pets.
good health.
hard work.
the ability to forgive.
kindness.
generosity.
humor.
smiles. (that are genuine)
life. (good, bad, and ugly --it's ALL very interesting)
the ability to love.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!!!
I am thankful for...
when small children can still give you a winning smile even though they are being yelled at by their parent in the grocery store.
a loving mother.
DD.
best friends.
understanding people.
children's laughter.
the sounds of children playing.
music. (good, bad and dreary)
things well-written.
intelligence. (which is questionable at times)
art.
mistakes.
the ability to learn. (even though sometimes it takes awhile)
knitting.
yarn. (that's really good and soft and beautiful)
pets.
good health.
hard work.
the ability to forgive.
kindness.
generosity.
humor.
smiles. (that are genuine)
life. (good, bad, and ugly --it's ALL very interesting)
the ability to love.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!!!
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Process Service...v2...disinterested party...
Turns out its all very interesting. The wording "disinterested party" is no longer part of the wording in the rules, which is why my belief that I correctly served Mr.X, twice now, is spot on. I actually taught the attorney I consulted something today. He was amused. Although he did go on to say he would never have people he knows serve paperwork for the very reason that it can possibly be questioned. The only reason I did was because Mr. X was leaving the state both times the very next morning. I mean, gosh, what am I supposed to do? The second time was best as it was smack dab in front of his attorney.
I also don't have to provide the process server information to opposing counsel unless ordered by the magistrate to do so, which I wasn't so I won't. Although if asked, I must provide it.
Process service:
1. person must be 18 or older
2. serve a copy of the documents
3. sign a return of service, in front of a notary, stating time and date and location where documents are served.
and last but most important:
4. not a party to the action.
There is nothing about being a "disinterested party" in the rules anymore.
I also don't have to provide the process server information to opposing counsel unless ordered by the magistrate to do so, which I wasn't so I won't. Although if asked, I must provide it.
Process service:
1. person must be 18 or older
2. serve a copy of the documents
3. sign a return of service, in front of a notary, stating time and date and location where documents are served.
and last but most important:
4. not a party to the action.
There is nothing about being a "disinterested party" in the rules anymore.
Why do people Lie?
Because they are scared.
Because they can.
Because they are stupid.
Because they are mean. (Mr. X)
There are a million reasons why people lie.
Sometimes you can tell a lie that becomes so big that it changes your life when you really didn't mean for it to do this and then what do you do?
Keep telling more lies? I guess only you can decide.
It really is less of a hassle to just be honest no matter how difficult. I don't believe anyone really believes that though, because otherwise we wouldn't lie now would we? What's your reasoning to lie?
Because they can.
Because they are stupid.
Because they are mean. (Mr. X)
There are a million reasons why people lie.
Sometimes you can tell a lie that becomes so big that it changes your life when you really didn't mean for it to do this and then what do you do?
Keep telling more lies? I guess only you can decide.
It really is less of a hassle to just be honest no matter how difficult. I don't believe anyone really believes that though, because otherwise we wouldn't lie now would we? What's your reasoning to lie?
Monday, November 22, 2010
Friday night concert...
In a word can you say REFUND!!!
Dark, Dreary, Boring, Pathetic, Tragic, Horrible are more words to describe the totally mislead generation that I witnessed at the concert that night. Mostly 20s and early 30s group as no one else would be complacent enough to fall for such dreariness.
Earlier I had read that this was a concert not to be missed. That Lizzy Huffman and Will Whitemore were worth seeing if they were ever in your town. That the music would be "old country." Boy, the write-up could not have been more wrong.
Did I see talent? Yes. Was it put to its best use that night? No. These musicians would have been better off using their instruments for a neighborhood bonfire than the music they created that night.
Inaia Lujan was the only light at the end of the tunnel and he went on first. It went downhill from there with no lights in sight.
Lizzy Huffman most certainly could and should have picked the beat up to save her audience the anguish of listening to her sad, "poor me, poor me,poor attitude" lyrics. You can get away with such C**P if you pick the beat up.
I can't even recall the name of the next group. Their music was the darkest and dreariest of all. I have never seen a steel guitar used (which I dearly love) --ahem ---abused, and put to such ill. Its too bad that these talented musicians only wanted to talk about how dreary and bored with life they are. At one point another gentleman came up on stage and things picked up slightly. It reminded me a little bit of "O Brother, Where Art Thou" and that's being generous.
Will Whitemore was a sad drunken excuse of a man that could barely walk let alone sing and play an instrument as he was so absolutely positively drunk that he was just a big case of pathetic, just short of tragic. At one point I thought he would pass out before finishing the song. He then became a very "chatty Cathy" (sorry Cathy) between songs and could not put a coherent sentence together let alone speak without slurring. Some people tend to get chatty when drunk and this man certainly did. It's too bad he didn't realize that he was better off playing his instrument--barely. Did I see he may have talent--possibly. It's just a sham--I mean shame, it wasn't present that night.
As for the type of music being played the individual who did the write-up in the first place needs to learn what "old country" is because this certainly was not what it was. Maybe "old world?," "Old World New-Age??" Although I have no idea what music Europe is listening to but if this is it then no wonder they are having the troubles they have currently. I would consider it to be new-age dreary, depressing folk and that's a stretch giving it the "folk" title. If you weren't depressed before you went you certainly were afterward.
Dark, Dreary, Boring, Pathetic, Tragic, Horrible are more words to describe the totally mislead generation that I witnessed at the concert that night. Mostly 20s and early 30s group as no one else would be complacent enough to fall for such dreariness.
Earlier I had read that this was a concert not to be missed. That Lizzy Huffman and Will Whitemore were worth seeing if they were ever in your town. That the music would be "old country." Boy, the write-up could not have been more wrong.
Did I see talent? Yes. Was it put to its best use that night? No. These musicians would have been better off using their instruments for a neighborhood bonfire than the music they created that night.
Inaia Lujan was the only light at the end of the tunnel and he went on first. It went downhill from there with no lights in sight.
Lizzy Huffman most certainly could and should have picked the beat up to save her audience the anguish of listening to her sad, "poor me, poor me,poor attitude" lyrics. You can get away with such C**P if you pick the beat up.
I can't even recall the name of the next group. Their music was the darkest and dreariest of all. I have never seen a steel guitar used (which I dearly love) --ahem ---abused, and put to such ill. Its too bad that these talented musicians only wanted to talk about how dreary and bored with life they are. At one point another gentleman came up on stage and things picked up slightly. It reminded me a little bit of "O Brother, Where Art Thou" and that's being generous.
Will Whitemore was a sad drunken excuse of a man that could barely walk let alone sing and play an instrument as he was so absolutely positively drunk that he was just a big case of pathetic, just short of tragic. At one point I thought he would pass out before finishing the song. He then became a very "chatty Cathy" (sorry Cathy) between songs and could not put a coherent sentence together let alone speak without slurring. Some people tend to get chatty when drunk and this man certainly did. It's too bad he didn't realize that he was better off playing his instrument--barely. Did I see he may have talent--possibly. It's just a sham--I mean shame, it wasn't present that night.
As for the type of music being played the individual who did the write-up in the first place needs to learn what "old country" is because this certainly was not what it was. Maybe "old world?," "Old World New-Age??" Although I have no idea what music Europe is listening to but if this is it then no wonder they are having the troubles they have currently. I would consider it to be new-age dreary, depressing folk and that's a stretch giving it the "folk" title. If you weren't depressed before you went you certainly were afterward.
small steps...
I ran into HWSNBN on Friday night before going to a concert. It was very difficult to see him. It was helpful since we will have to get together in the near future regarding his testimony. I thought at one point I might pass out and had to keep reminding myself to keep breathing. I didn't stay long at the place as I was there to pick up my best friend and that's where she happened to be. I have never seen him looking so haggard and sad. It was very disconcerting...or maybe it was just my imagination since I couldn't breath very well.
Small steps are very helpful.
Small steps are very helpful.
Friday, November 19, 2010
Word for the day...Friday...
Happy weekend everyone!!!
Personally, I hope to get some sleep.
Toodle-loo.
Personally, I hope to get some sleep.
Toodle-loo.
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Process Service...
HWSNBN returned my call. The call did not go as well as expected. I haven't slept for at least 2 days and really had a difficult time putting together a coherent sentence that even I could understand. We hung up and I called mom. This helped me to put together my thoughts and I got the sinking feeling that I needed to call HWSNBN again. yes,no,yes,no---went my head.
I did end up calling HWSNBN again and the 2nd call went much better. I was able to explain my dilemma and sound semi-coherent and inform him that he is now the star witness in this soap opera court drama. He wasn't happy to find this out. He then informed me that the lovely court appointed attorney asked my child to obtain his contact information and give it to her (the attorney). This is very inappropriate behavior and highly unethical. The attorney is to contact me for the information not the child of the parties.
This attorney just placed my child in the middle of this case and discussed the case and the continued hearing in front of her and asked her to obtain information that can and should be obtained from me. A huge deal was just made in court of how the child of the parties is to NOT be placed in the middle of the case or discuss the case in front of her and then this happens.
People are fallible, especially attorneys. But they can always apologize for this behavior later(and still get away with it and still keep doing it).
This always happens and is exactly why I requested that our child be present at all hearings. To alleviate this problem. Plus it actually ends any mental anguish for the child, which the court inadvertently inflicts with this policy, because nothing is hidden or kept secret and the child knows exactly what happened.
You can also speak about what happened at the hearing in front of the child because the child wasn't kept separate. When you do keep the child separate you must immediately stop talking about the case in front of the child when the child walks into the room and when they are with you. How do you feel when someone is talking along and then immediately stops when you walk into the room? You feel as though you did something wrong; that you broke the law, in a word you feel like a criminal. You also feel that secrets are being kept from you and any normal person wants to know immediately what those secrets are or at the very least it makes you even more curious about what happened.
When you allow children in the courtroom it takes all the secrecy away and all the curiosity out of it and makes it no big deal. When you hide and exclude this makes it become a big deal and more than it really is and also causes mental anguish.
end rant.
(oh yeah) reminder of main point: the attorney and the respondent's behavior is/was totally inappropriate, highly unethical and totally, totally unacceptable, which has now caused a great deal of mental anguish for my child.
Note: I did speak with my child and informed her she is not to get into the middle of this, that they can get any information from me not her, and that was all I said.
I did end up calling HWSNBN again and the 2nd call went much better. I was able to explain my dilemma and sound semi-coherent and inform him that he is now the star witness in this soap opera court drama. He wasn't happy to find this out. He then informed me that the lovely court appointed attorney asked my child to obtain his contact information and give it to her (the attorney). This is very inappropriate behavior and highly unethical. The attorney is to contact me for the information not the child of the parties.
This attorney just placed my child in the middle of this case and discussed the case and the continued hearing in front of her and asked her to obtain information that can and should be obtained from me. A huge deal was just made in court of how the child of the parties is to NOT be placed in the middle of the case or discuss the case in front of her and then this happens.
People are fallible, especially attorneys. But they can always apologize for this behavior later(and still get away with it and still keep doing it).
This always happens and is exactly why I requested that our child be present at all hearings. To alleviate this problem. Plus it actually ends any mental anguish for the child, which the court inadvertently inflicts with this policy, because nothing is hidden or kept secret and the child knows exactly what happened.
You can also speak about what happened at the hearing in front of the child because the child wasn't kept separate. When you do keep the child separate you must immediately stop talking about the case in front of the child when the child walks into the room and when they are with you. How do you feel when someone is talking along and then immediately stops when you walk into the room? You feel as though you did something wrong; that you broke the law, in a word you feel like a criminal. You also feel that secrets are being kept from you and any normal person wants to know immediately what those secrets are or at the very least it makes you even more curious about what happened.
When you allow children in the courtroom it takes all the secrecy away and all the curiosity out of it and makes it no big deal. When you hide and exclude this makes it become a big deal and more than it really is and also causes mental anguish.
end rant.
(oh yeah) reminder of main point: the attorney and the respondent's behavior is/was totally inappropriate, highly unethical and totally, totally unacceptable, which has now caused a great deal of mental anguish for my child.
Note: I did speak with my child and informed her she is not to get into the middle of this, that they can get any information from me not her, and that was all I said.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Girls Night Out...
is just what the Magistrate ordered. ha Or certainly would have had she known the extent of my dilemma I now seem to be in.
It was fun meeting up with T and K at MacKenzie's Pub and out the window went my deal with myself to not drink alcohol for a year. It seemed that after that morning in court, two Lemon Drop martini's (over a 3 hour time period) jumped from the menu and were on my order and an artichoke dip with veggies to eat since the only thing I had eaten all day was a hard boiled egg and a glass a juice just before court.
It was certainly a grand time and I hope we do it again next month sans court. But of course I have court next month so it's looking like this might be on my calendar as well.
I don't know if I will need him (will have to do research) but just in case, I did call HWSNBN to let him know that I had a slight problem with the service and need to speak with him about it. The two martini's helped with the call and I had to leave a message so I left out the part where he is to be the star of the court drama for the next hearing. oh, boy.
(I know you're laughing inside--I just know it) It is ironic.
IRONY you heartless bitch!!!
It was fun meeting up with T and K at MacKenzie's Pub and out the window went my deal with myself to not drink alcohol for a year. It seemed that after that morning in court, two Lemon Drop martini's (over a 3 hour time period) jumped from the menu and were on my order and an artichoke dip with veggies to eat since the only thing I had eaten all day was a hard boiled egg and a glass a juice just before court.
It was certainly a grand time and I hope we do it again next month sans court. But of course I have court next month so it's looking like this might be on my calendar as well.
I don't know if I will need him (will have to do research) but just in case, I did call HWSNBN to let him know that I had a slight problem with the service and need to speak with him about it. The two martini's helped with the call and I had to leave a message so I left out the part where he is to be the star of the court drama for the next hearing. oh, boy.
(I know you're laughing inside--I just know it) It is ironic.
IRONY you heartless bitch!!!
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Court today and...
NOTHING HAPPENED!!!! Other than Mr. X certainly likes to go to court a lot. Such a big waste of his time. I feel as though I was side swiped, hit, and ran over by a Mack Truck. Mr. X is claiming that he was not served correctly. That he received the Order but no Verified Motion. He's lying! or in the alternative lost the paperwork, which certainly is not my responsibility but becomes mine when he makes such a claim. I wonder when he will get tired of shoving his responsibility for himself onto others? I certainly am tired of it being mine. I truly wonder when his In-laws will get tired of supporting him.
And guess who I had serve him?? Yes, the infamous "he who shall not be named" --- the recent ex-boyfriend. And therin lies the problem of having current boyfriends serve ex-husbands, my pretties, as they may someday become an ex too. (I know your are laughing at this point aren't you??? aren't you???)---well, me too. Because it's HILARIOUS!! I think this is called a paradigm? paradox? oxymoron??? something.
OMG!!! are there cameras somewhere?? Am I in a soap opera and don't know it??? This only happens on TV, right??? RIGHT????
So in court the Magistrate asks me if I can call the person who did the service because the case will now have to be set for a hearing for testimony regarding the paperwork that was served and that person has to personally come in and state what was the paperwork. AACCK!! Of course says I but I do not have my cell phone and I don't know the number. As the number is in my cell phone. The Magistrate went ahead and set it for another hearing in December with the hopes that "he who shall not be named"(HWSNBN) can attend. Oh boy, more court and I get to call HWSNBN and see if he can help me out. CRIPES!!! Are you sure there are no cameras??? SOMEWHERE???
End court appearance---stage left.
Ahh, deep breath, deep breath. think, think, think. All is not lost my pretties, as the claim is that service is incorrect and this is why Respondents (defendants, offenders, criminals), high-tail it out of court when making such a claim because usually a person has another copy of everything and they are served again right there on the spot.
think, think, think. I go through my paperwork downstairs and find an extra copy of my Verified Motion (from my days of being in the legal field I always made an extra copy of the paperwork just for this very reason). I do not have an extra copy of the Order but I happily gave up mine and promptly realized that my dear mother could properly serve Mr. X there and then. I asked an attorney standing next to us to verify my suspicions even tho she is related to me and he replied as long as she is not a party to the case, yes.
Mom, being a trooper, quickly took up my cause and we waited downstairs for them to come out as most people leave right away when making the claim they did. They did not so Mom went up and happily and properly served Mr. X.
Hurray!! We can now go to court and Dear Mom can be my witness that proper service was completed.
If they want to play dirty, dirty is what it will be. and now for my next item (smiles me secretly) more on that later, my pretties...
And guess who I had serve him?? Yes, the infamous "he who shall not be named" --- the recent ex-boyfriend. And therin lies the problem of having current boyfriends serve ex-husbands, my pretties, as they may someday become an ex too. (I know your are laughing at this point aren't you??? aren't you???)---well, me too. Because it's HILARIOUS!! I think this is called a paradigm? paradox? oxymoron??? something.
OMG!!! are there cameras somewhere?? Am I in a soap opera and don't know it??? This only happens on TV, right??? RIGHT????
So in court the Magistrate asks me if I can call the person who did the service because the case will now have to be set for a hearing for testimony regarding the paperwork that was served and that person has to personally come in and state what was the paperwork. AACCK!! Of course says I but I do not have my cell phone and I don't know the number. As the number is in my cell phone. The Magistrate went ahead and set it for another hearing in December with the hopes that "he who shall not be named"(HWSNBN) can attend. Oh boy, more court and I get to call HWSNBN and see if he can help me out. CRIPES!!! Are you sure there are no cameras??? SOMEWHERE???
End court appearance---stage left.
Ahh, deep breath, deep breath. think, think, think. All is not lost my pretties, as the claim is that service is incorrect and this is why Respondents (defendants, offenders, criminals), high-tail it out of court when making such a claim because usually a person has another copy of everything and they are served again right there on the spot.
think, think, think. I go through my paperwork downstairs and find an extra copy of my Verified Motion (from my days of being in the legal field I always made an extra copy of the paperwork just for this very reason). I do not have an extra copy of the Order but I happily gave up mine and promptly realized that my dear mother could properly serve Mr. X there and then. I asked an attorney standing next to us to verify my suspicions even tho she is related to me and he replied as long as she is not a party to the case, yes.
Mom, being a trooper, quickly took up my cause and we waited downstairs for them to come out as most people leave right away when making the claim they did. They did not so Mom went up and happily and properly served Mr. X.
Hurray!! We can now go to court and Dear Mom can be my witness that proper service was completed.
If they want to play dirty, dirty is what it will be. and now for my next item (smiles me secretly) more on that later, my pretties...
Monday, November 15, 2010
Court... Nov 16...10:30am.
Had to meet with Mr. X and his court appointed attorney last Thursday to decide if an agreement could be made regarding the money he owes me for minor child expenses. His attorney asked if I would be willing to take less money, which I have previously done and refuse to do anymore. The gall of some people. It's really disgusting how Mr. X can sit there claiming "Christianity" and then on purpose not hold a job so he doesn't have to pay as much child support or expenses. Actions like his really cause people to become atheist. Although that's an oxymoron in itself too. If you don't believe in God, aren't you acknowledging there is one by claiming to NOT believe? Anyhoo...
His excuse is that I ruined his chance to sell the farm we owned jointly and he feels righteous about not paying his obligation since I ruined his chance to make money, which is totally ridiculous. All he had to do was a $15 title search and and would have found the lien I placed on it, but instead he spent the $10,000 down payment which should have went into escrow until the property closed. Geez the absolute nerve and irresponsibility of some people.
I have worked two jobs in the past, why can't he?
He is so gross and disgusting. It is amazing to me that DD is ok with his actions and his current in-laws love him. Its just disgusting. Mr. X lives off of the money of his in-laws, who have lots of money (but not for long with a son-in-law like him), and it just amazes me that they think so highly of such a disgusting person that uses them this way. I cannot believe they do not have a problem with it. It is what they allow. I swear there are scales over their eyes. They absolutely hate me, whom they have never met and who has never taken a cent from them (I've probably save them money), and who adore him, who has conned them out of thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars and continues to do so by deceit and manipulation. Mr. X still owes his own father, God rest his soul, over $120,000. When will someone please wake up and say NO MORE to this horrible person!!
Mr. X informed me recently in Aug. that the in-laws were more important than the person you marry. Yeah, for him it is since they obviously pay him money and/or his expenses to live that isn't traceable as income. Con artists will always be around so keep your eyes open and your pocket book closed. Just say NO and stick with it. Don't listen to them. Remember there is always some truth to a lie (con). That's what makes it believable enough to suck you in.
Sorry, I digress.
Court tomorrow. Prepared my exhibits yesterday and will finish putting together today. Wish me luck. 'Cause I'm gonna need it.
His excuse is that I ruined his chance to sell the farm we owned jointly and he feels righteous about not paying his obligation since I ruined his chance to make money, which is totally ridiculous. All he had to do was a $15 title search and and would have found the lien I placed on it, but instead he spent the $10,000 down payment which should have went into escrow until the property closed. Geez the absolute nerve and irresponsibility of some people.
I have worked two jobs in the past, why can't he?
He is so gross and disgusting. It is amazing to me that DD is ok with his actions and his current in-laws love him. Its just disgusting. Mr. X lives off of the money of his in-laws, who have lots of money (but not for long with a son-in-law like him), and it just amazes me that they think so highly of such a disgusting person that uses them this way. I cannot believe they do not have a problem with it. It is what they allow. I swear there are scales over their eyes. They absolutely hate me, whom they have never met and who has never taken a cent from them (I've probably save them money), and who adore him, who has conned them out of thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars and continues to do so by deceit and manipulation. Mr. X still owes his own father, God rest his soul, over $120,000. When will someone please wake up and say NO MORE to this horrible person!!
Mr. X informed me recently in Aug. that the in-laws were more important than the person you marry. Yeah, for him it is since they obviously pay him money and/or his expenses to live that isn't traceable as income. Con artists will always be around so keep your eyes open and your pocket book closed. Just say NO and stick with it. Don't listen to them. Remember there is always some truth to a lie (con). That's what makes it believable enough to suck you in.
Sorry, I digress.
Court tomorrow. Prepared my exhibits yesterday and will finish putting together today. Wish me luck. 'Cause I'm gonna need it.
Insulation...2nd set.
I purchased my second set of insulation but I am thoroughly exhausted from the first that I was barely able to get out of bed on both Saturday or Sunday. Mom was all like, "well let's get some up there." and I was all like, "I am about to die here, thanks very much." and she was like, "what's the problem?" It is difficult for other people to understand exactly what happens to me. Even I have a hard time with it. Just cleaning my home is exhausting.
I have decided it best to take a week off from the insulation project for fear of ending up in the hospital from over exhaustion. Of course mom is all worried and now thinks that the rest should be hired done. I informed her that things just take me a little longer to do, that's all.
Instead I did laundry and ran errands this weekend, which exhausted me too. Such is life with a low thyroid.
2nd set delayed a little bit.
I have decided it best to take a week off from the insulation project for fear of ending up in the hospital from over exhaustion. Of course mom is all worried and now thinks that the rest should be hired done. I informed her that things just take me a little longer to do, that's all.
Instead I did laundry and ran errands this weekend, which exhausted me too. Such is life with a low thyroid.
2nd set delayed a little bit.
Friday, November 12, 2010
10, ten, diez, dix, deg, a deich, zehn... is my happy word today.
10 rolls of insulation are now complete and in the attic. I rolled the last 3 of the ten last night. Oh, what a thankless, dirty, itchy project this has been and very wearing! I think I'll sleep for a month after I'm done. Hibernation anyone?? It'll be warm enough, at least in my home anyway. I have also discovered I will need to cut soffit vents in my eaves (more on that another time) so that condensation does not build up in the attic and create mold (mold is a bad thing). I am so very pleased to have the 10 rolls done and will purchase another 10 this Saturday. By next weekend I should be snuggle-y warm as a bug at home. Hurrah!!!
Happy weekend everyone!
language translation of 10:
numeral
english
spanish
french
welsh
irish (ah jeh) (counting up which I am doing)
german
Happy weekend everyone!
language translation of 10:
numeral
english
spanish
french
welsh
irish (ah jeh) (counting up which I am doing)
german
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Holiday Ornament.
This is a quick gift to put together if you have all the supplies on hand, which I happen to have. I'll be making three. I have one done and the next one is ready to put in the ornament. It's very fiddly working with the invisible thread. The pattern is called "Knitting for the Holidays' and is free. Love, Love the free patterns, thank you.
Head Lamp is the word for today...
Last night the attic didn't look so small and climbing up to it wasn't scary anymore either. I informed my co-workers (all men) that I was working on putting insulation in my attic and not one of them offered to help. I certainly understand why after Sunday. It is such a thankless, cramped, dirty, difficult job. I did get lots of suggestions. The best so far was to get an LED head lamp. I immediately went online to check out my options. I found a really inexpensive one for $5.00 at KMART. So I headed over there at lunch since there is one about 3 blocks away from where I work. They were all gone. I purchased the next one up for about $11.00, which is what most started at and went up from there at all the stores I checked online anyway. This one has 25 lumens which is pretty good for the price. The higher the lumens the better. It worked great and I really liked using it.
Engery Star has a great website and a pdf on how to lay insulation. I read that and it helped too.
DD and mom came over to help. I got 3 more rolls completed on the insulation and 3 left to do that are already in the attic. DD helped pull the insulation up which helped me so all I had to do was concentrate on laying it. It was slow going as I had to cut it a lot to work around the ceiling lights and conduit. The next area still has lots of stuff to work around so it will be slow going too. My legs are so bruised up from the knees down it looks like I got in a fight with a midget and the midget won. I did remember to use my shin guards which helped. I am certain that by this weekend I will be so worn out that all I'll be able to do is lay in bed. And then go purchase the next round.
This project has been so worth doing. I cannot say enough regarding how much difference it has already made and I am only about one-fourth complete. I am looking forward to being done and warm for the winter.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Change...
This is what is on my heart today...
Last night as I was hand washing dishes I was listening to my Tracy Chapman album, I just love Tracy she has a great sultry voice, and this song's lyrics made me think about life. I hope you think about where you are and where you need to be and be brave enough to make the changes.
Change by Tracy Chapman
If you knew that you would die today,
Saw the face of God and love,
Would you change?
Would you change?
If you knew that love can break your heart
When you're down so low you cannot fall
Would you change?
Would you change?
How bad, how good does it need to get?
How many losses? How much regret?
What chain reaction would cause an effect?
Makes you turn around,
Makes you try to explain,
Makes you forgive and forget,
Makes you change?
Makes you change?
If you knew that you would be alone,
Knowing right, being wrong,
Would you change?
Would you change?
If you knew that you would find a truth
That brings up pain that can't be soothed
Would you change?
Would you change?
How bad, how good does it need to get?
How many losses? How much regret?
What chain reaction would cause an effect?
Makes you turn around,
Makes you try to explain,
Makes you forgive and forget,
Makes you change?
Makes you change?
Are you so upright you can't be bent?
If it comes to blows are you so sure you won't be crawling?
If not for the good, why risk falling?
Why risk falling?
If everything you think you know,
Makes your life unbearable,
Would you change?
Would you change?
If you'd broken every rule and vow,
And hard times come to bring you down,
Would you change?
Would you change?
If you knew that you would die today,
If you saw the face of God and love,
Would you change?
Would you change?
Would you change?
Would you change?
If you saw the face of God and love
If you saw the face of God and love
Would you change?
Would you change?
Last night as I was hand washing dishes I was listening to my Tracy Chapman album, I just love Tracy she has a great sultry voice, and this song's lyrics made me think about life. I hope you think about where you are and where you need to be and be brave enough to make the changes.
Change by Tracy Chapman
If you knew that you would die today,
Saw the face of God and love,
Would you change?
Would you change?
If you knew that love can break your heart
When you're down so low you cannot fall
Would you change?
Would you change?
How bad, how good does it need to get?
How many losses? How much regret?
What chain reaction would cause an effect?
Makes you turn around,
Makes you try to explain,
Makes you forgive and forget,
Makes you change?
Makes you change?
If you knew that you would be alone,
Knowing right, being wrong,
Would you change?
Would you change?
If you knew that you would find a truth
That brings up pain that can't be soothed
Would you change?
Would you change?
How bad, how good does it need to get?
How many losses? How much regret?
What chain reaction would cause an effect?
Makes you turn around,
Makes you try to explain,
Makes you forgive and forget,
Makes you change?
Makes you change?
Are you so upright you can't be bent?
If it comes to blows are you so sure you won't be crawling?
If not for the good, why risk falling?
Why risk falling?
If everything you think you know,
Makes your life unbearable,
Would you change?
Would you change?
If you'd broken every rule and vow,
And hard times come to bring you down,
Would you change?
Would you change?
If you knew that you would die today,
If you saw the face of God and love,
Would you change?
Would you change?
Would you change?
Would you change?
If you saw the face of God and love
If you saw the face of God and love
Would you change?
Would you change?
Monday, November 8, 2010
Insulation...R30.
What a thankless job it is to install insulation in the attic. I thought I was going to die and I'm not even close to being done. I really don't know how people do this for a living.
First the access to my attic is very tiny, and since the opening is so small (1x2--that's being generous) I have to unroll the insulation to even get it up to the attic as I do not have the upper body strength to push it through. I then have to crab walk on the 2x4s all the while pulling the insulation to one end of the attic. Second while installing I have to hold myself up on the 2x4s and lay the insulation at the same time. I was exhausted after laying 4 rolls and I figured I have approximately 31 to do. I purchased 10 rolls this go round and have 6 left to do on this first installment. Third and Fourth, I am thankful that I wore long sleeves and pants, a mask, and eye protection. These are most definitely a must as the fiberglass gets everywhere and is very itchy. Not good for lungs or skin or eyes.
Before all this, I do not have a ladder so I must use the step stool to climb onto the furnace, to ease over to my double stacked washer and dryer, push up the access board, move back over to the furnace, and gingerly pull myself up through the attic opening supporting most of my weight on my arms so I don't crush the furnace piping. Just call me Popeye when this is done.
It doesn't help to be afraid of heights nor claustrophobic. EE, gads. I'll certainly be used to those things once done with this project. I figure I will save enough money this winter to pay for the project and a tax credit ends on Dec 31 that I can apply. I can already tell a difference even with only laying 4 rolls.
I must say mom was a trooper as she helped me go get the insulation and helped with pushing it into the attic. I do appreciate her help immensely.
Ironic that after my posting about family and contact, I have had at least 4 phone calls from my mom. huh, it just goes to show you never can win.
First the access to my attic is very tiny, and since the opening is so small (1x2--that's being generous) I have to unroll the insulation to even get it up to the attic as I do not have the upper body strength to push it through. I then have to crab walk on the 2x4s all the while pulling the insulation to one end of the attic. Second while installing I have to hold myself up on the 2x4s and lay the insulation at the same time. I was exhausted after laying 4 rolls and I figured I have approximately 31 to do. I purchased 10 rolls this go round and have 6 left to do on this first installment. Third and Fourth, I am thankful that I wore long sleeves and pants, a mask, and eye protection. These are most definitely a must as the fiberglass gets everywhere and is very itchy. Not good for lungs or skin or eyes.
Before all this, I do not have a ladder so I must use the step stool to climb onto the furnace, to ease over to my double stacked washer and dryer, push up the access board, move back over to the furnace, and gingerly pull myself up through the attic opening supporting most of my weight on my arms so I don't crush the furnace piping. Just call me Popeye when this is done.
It doesn't help to be afraid of heights nor claustrophobic. EE, gads. I'll certainly be used to those things once done with this project. I figure I will save enough money this winter to pay for the project and a tax credit ends on Dec 31 that I can apply. I can already tell a difference even with only laying 4 rolls.
I must say mom was a trooper as she helped me go get the insulation and helped with pushing it into the attic. I do appreciate her help immensely.
Ironic that after my posting about family and contact, I have had at least 4 phone calls from my mom. huh, it just goes to show you never can win.
Friday, November 5, 2010
Ya Know you just never can win with family...
Last night I got a phone call from my Aunt E. She lives in Baton Rouge. I just love speaking with her. We caught up on all the family news, which was great.
I also learned that I have a niece who is about a year old (and happens to live about a block away from me), which totally caught me by surprise. It would be nice to meet her. I immediately called my mom after hanging up with my Aunt and asked her about the situation and she was very cavalier about the whole thing. She did tell me the information that she knew and that was that.
It really gets me. My immediate family always wonders why I am the way I am with them in that I take no interest in my family and this is a prime example. Why have anything to do with them when they don't include me. I really do care but I cannot do anything about their actions to exclude me. I can't make them include me. Can you not pick up the phone and call and let me know the family news? Nope, guess not.
I have to constantly beat down the family door to be let in, so to speak, and it gets really frustrating. I am the one that calls, I am the one that is constantly harassing them to be included. This is so frustrating that at times I just give up. In ten years I can count on one hand how many times my own brother actually picked up his phone and called me. It was two times.
So I find other people and places to go. People who actually want to include me and be with me. Other people to care about. Geez, sometimes I feel like an only child who has no family. I bet you have family stuff too.
Cripes. You never can win.
I also learned that I have a niece who is about a year old (and happens to live about a block away from me), which totally caught me by surprise. It would be nice to meet her. I immediately called my mom after hanging up with my Aunt and asked her about the situation and she was very cavalier about the whole thing. She did tell me the information that she knew and that was that.
It really gets me. My immediate family always wonders why I am the way I am with them in that I take no interest in my family and this is a prime example. Why have anything to do with them when they don't include me. I really do care but I cannot do anything about their actions to exclude me. I can't make them include me. Can you not pick up the phone and call and let me know the family news? Nope, guess not.
I have to constantly beat down the family door to be let in, so to speak, and it gets really frustrating. I am the one that calls, I am the one that is constantly harassing them to be included. This is so frustrating that at times I just give up. In ten years I can count on one hand how many times my own brother actually picked up his phone and called me. It was two times.
So I find other people and places to go. People who actually want to include me and be with me. Other people to care about. Geez, sometimes I feel like an only child who has no family. I bet you have family stuff too.
Cripes. You never can win.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Happy Faces...
As I drove into work today, I spotted two little boys walking to school. I've been watching them over the past year and when I see them I like to pay attention to what they do. Usually they are distracted by a puppy or some bug on the sidewalk. Today, the blond haired boy was showing the dark haired boy a dance step that he had learned. They were so cute and so very happy and laughing. It made me smile to see their happy faces.
I really enjoy seeing them on my way to work and if I do see them it means I am late to work or very close to it, and its worth it.
I really enjoy seeing them on my way to work and if I do see them it means I am late to work or very close to it, and its worth it.
additional issue discovered...
While having a lovely dinner at the Blue Star last night, my best friend K mentioned an additional issue regarding my recently terminated relationship and I think she is spot on. She mentioned that we had been having problems for about a year and the problem was that "he who shall not be named" liked to be "mothered." This is how she saw our relationship anyway.
"and you just don't do that." she said. Yep too right, I don't!!
Light bulb turned on in my head,"BINGO!" I had always informed "he who shall not be named" that he needed someone more nurturing and he would deny it. She mentioned that he seemed to be used to being "mothered" and the people he surrounded himself with in the past would do that for him. She noticed that he seemed to be frustrated with me because I don't do that and she noticed that he actually liked to be "mothered," and that it was a shock to him to be with me because he didn't know how to take care of things that were usually taken care of by other "mothering" people.
Interesting, now that I think about it, he does have two close friends that like to "mother" him, which they seem to enjoy doing and he enjoys being on the receiving end. Too funny. Personally, it just grosses me out.
Even poor DD would always complain that she had to take care of things that her friends didn't (I think she is all the better for it). I do recall one instance where she stated that "he who shall not be named" was going to get a rude awakening one day if he didn't wake up soon. I also recall several instances of him complaining how I expect too much from him, which translated means: "I need to be mothered because I really, really, like it. Even though I deny it" "EEEWWW, GROSS!!!", says I.
This is not to say that I am not compassionate or kind. I am those things without having to "mother." It's interesting to note that when I watch people or speak with them most like to be "mothered" yet will deny it. What's with that?? Why be ashamed? Just own up to it and move forward. It really would make life easier if we're just honest with ourselves and others even if embarrassed by something we like.
I'll have to keep my eye out for this issue too and if the next gentleman likes to be "mothered" I need to move on, quickly. It makes me wonder if there are any men out there that don't need this because I see it A LOT!
Well, I'll just cross my fingers and hope.
"and you just don't do that." she said. Yep too right, I don't!!
Light bulb turned on in my head,"BINGO!" I had always informed "he who shall not be named" that he needed someone more nurturing and he would deny it. She mentioned that he seemed to be used to being "mothered" and the people he surrounded himself with in the past would do that for him. She noticed that he seemed to be frustrated with me because I don't do that and she noticed that he actually liked to be "mothered," and that it was a shock to him to be with me because he didn't know how to take care of things that were usually taken care of by other "mothering" people.
Interesting, now that I think about it, he does have two close friends that like to "mother" him, which they seem to enjoy doing and he enjoys being on the receiving end. Too funny. Personally, it just grosses me out.
Even poor DD would always complain that she had to take care of things that her friends didn't (I think she is all the better for it). I do recall one instance where she stated that "he who shall not be named" was going to get a rude awakening one day if he didn't wake up soon. I also recall several instances of him complaining how I expect too much from him, which translated means: "I need to be mothered because I really, really, like it. Even though I deny it" "EEEWWW, GROSS!!!", says I.
This is not to say that I am not compassionate or kind. I am those things without having to "mother." It's interesting to note that when I watch people or speak with them most like to be "mothered" yet will deny it. What's with that?? Why be ashamed? Just own up to it and move forward. It really would make life easier if we're just honest with ourselves and others even if embarrassed by something we like.
I'll have to keep my eye out for this issue too and if the next gentleman likes to be "mothered" I need to move on, quickly. It makes me wonder if there are any men out there that don't need this because I see it A LOT!
Well, I'll just cross my fingers and hope.
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
Too Comfortable...
Today I was shopping at Wally World and noticed that ALL the self-checkout lines were gone. I asked the clerk what was up with that? She replied, "people were making themselves a little too comfortable." What a wonderful tactful way to describe stealing,""thievery,""filch,""heist,""pilfer,""pinch,""boost,""purloin,""misappropriate,""swipe."
I have also been doing a little experimentation with the clerks too. I noticed that when a grouchy person is their customer they work slower and with a pleasant person they work faster. When it's my turn I smile and take an interest in them and they seem to speed up. I usually make a comment about them and thank them for their hard work. Such a little thing and we are all the better for it. It has taken me little or no effort to be nicer and it seems to energize and please the clerk and I get to leave quicker which pleases me as I have a hard time not thinking about all the germs that may be attaching themselves to me. AAACK.
I think that we are all a little "too comfortable" being unpleasant or ignoring each other. It's the little things, I tell ya.
I have also been doing a little experimentation with the clerks too. I noticed that when a grouchy person is their customer they work slower and with a pleasant person they work faster. When it's my turn I smile and take an interest in them and they seem to speed up. I usually make a comment about them and thank them for their hard work. Such a little thing and we are all the better for it. It has taken me little or no effort to be nicer and it seems to energize and please the clerk and I get to leave quicker which pleases me as I have a hard time not thinking about all the germs that may be attaching themselves to me. AAACK.
I think that we are all a little "too comfortable" being unpleasant or ignoring each other. It's the little things, I tell ya.
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
VOTE!!
United States citizens remember to vote today!! Remember socialism does NOT work. Take a look at Greece, they are broke. Take a look at France they are rioting--only because they have to work 2 more years before retirement and they have a low retirement age. Take a look at history. Why do we think that those in power are honest? Some are not.
Socialism only works for those in power and not everyone is a friend to those in power.
Proverbs 26 states that even the sluggard becomes so lazy that they cannot lift their own hand to their mouth to eat (I took the liberty of paraphrasing that from the NIV). Do not become so lazy that you won't work and you need government to provide everything for you. Taxes must come from somewhere. Free is not free.
Yesterday a Federal judge in Arizona ruled that it is illegal to request identification when voting. Question: How do you obtain a semi-honest ballot when you have not correctly identified people who are voting? Do you really believe that everyone is going to be honest about this? People have already proven throughout history that they are not honest and there needs to be a checks and balances approach to keep some semblance of honesty present.
There goes democracy right down the toilet.
So VOTE, VOTE, VOTE and don't allow ignorance to prevail!!
Socialism only works for those in power and not everyone is a friend to those in power.
Proverbs 26 states that even the sluggard becomes so lazy that they cannot lift their own hand to their mouth to eat (I took the liberty of paraphrasing that from the NIV). Do not become so lazy that you won't work and you need government to provide everything for you. Taxes must come from somewhere. Free is not free.
Yesterday a Federal judge in Arizona ruled that it is illegal to request identification when voting. Question: How do you obtain a semi-honest ballot when you have not correctly identified people who are voting? Do you really believe that everyone is going to be honest about this? People have already proven throughout history that they are not honest and there needs to be a checks and balances approach to keep some semblance of honesty present.
There goes democracy right down the toilet.
So VOTE, VOTE, VOTE and don't allow ignorance to prevail!!
WoollyWormhead Mystery Hats...
started these last night.
Hat A is the yellow. this is supposed to be fingering weight I am using sock and fingering and a smaller needle. I am knitting one size up from the smallest size. Since I do not know hats I really hope this turns out.
Hat B is the brown. I am using worsted weight and the needle both correct for this one. Also knitting one size up from smallest size. Supposedly this would be the correct choice. Although anytime I have made a hat its always too big.
My head is 21.5 inches and supposedly you want 3-4 inches negative ease. Meaning you want your hat to turn out that much smaller than your head. cross fingers and hope.
Monday, November 1, 2010
Fishy fish...
My best friend and her guy always dress up and go to a costume Halloween party. Her guy really gets into the make up and artistry of it all. He likes to create costumes to wear so that they are not recognizable. Here are their costumes for this year. They took gummy worms to hand out to people.
22 Leaves.
22 Leaves is now complete. It turned out great. I knit it in white Donegal (which means there are pieces of different coloured fabric/yarn woven into the yarn) and then Kool-aid dyed. 3 black cherry, 1 berry blue. I just love the Kool-aid dyeing method. Very easy, very cost effective, and the dye is slurped up in 20 min and you are done. Also, there are no poisons to worry about or keeping cooking pots/utensils separate. I have also yet to have anything run. I do always check it.
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Thursday's Thoughts...in pictures.
4Mile Golf Course just outside Canon City Colorado.
and a hungry road runner catching bugs.
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Enough...
Enough is Enough and Sometimes It is Never Enough..
I have gone over my recently terminated relationship, which happened earlier this month and have discovered a few things. There was something wrong with the relationship that I could never put my finger on. Something just below the surface that kept morphing into different unhappy situations, which kept me thinking the problems were a multitude of issues. Then it hit me it's only one issue, I realized that I was not enough for this man. I do not mean this comment in a bad way towards him nor as a negative comment towards myself. Nor do I think less of myself because of this. I just wasn't enough, which isn't good for either of us. It's like Christmas--some people just never get enough of it.
This is why I believe he cultivated a relationship with another woman, no matter how innocent it may have been. It's still inappropriate when you are supposedly in a committed relationship with someone else and it harms your committed relationship. Sometimes innocent behavior is NOT suitable no matter the situation and IS harmful and mean even when you have no intention for it to be that way.
I believe that this issue has a lot to do with ego. This man just needed more. More people who liked him, more people who boosted his ego. More people impressed with him. More people to listen to him. More people for him to have contact. More people to see what he had to say and offer. And that's ok some people just need more.
Realizing that I was not enough helps me to look at myself and also at any future companion and to take notice when I am not enough. I believe that if you are in a committed relationship each of you should be enough for the other. It doesn't mean that the relationship still won't have issues or need work. It also doesn't mean you don't need additional friendships. I realize that there are additional friendships to be developed and enjoyed. These friendships should always be appropriate and let go immediately when they are not. If you have to hang on to a relationship and not be forthright and honest about it then the committed relationship needs to go. Hence mine did.
I do recognize that being apart from this man is best for both of us as I just wasn't enough for him. It doesn't make it any easier. My heart is quite torn as I cared very deeply for him. I have cried an ocean of tears and continue to do so. I only hope the eventual healing process for myself is healthy and thorough.
Does time really heal all wounds?? I really wish I didn't have to find out but this time I will. Enough is enough for me.
I have gone over my recently terminated relationship, which happened earlier this month and have discovered a few things. There was something wrong with the relationship that I could never put my finger on. Something just below the surface that kept morphing into different unhappy situations, which kept me thinking the problems were a multitude of issues. Then it hit me it's only one issue, I realized that I was not enough for this man. I do not mean this comment in a bad way towards him nor as a negative comment towards myself. Nor do I think less of myself because of this. I just wasn't enough, which isn't good for either of us. It's like Christmas--some people just never get enough of it.
This is why I believe he cultivated a relationship with another woman, no matter how innocent it may have been. It's still inappropriate when you are supposedly in a committed relationship with someone else and it harms your committed relationship. Sometimes innocent behavior is NOT suitable no matter the situation and IS harmful and mean even when you have no intention for it to be that way.
I believe that this issue has a lot to do with ego. This man just needed more. More people who liked him, more people who boosted his ego. More people impressed with him. More people to listen to him. More people for him to have contact. More people to see what he had to say and offer. And that's ok some people just need more.
Realizing that I was not enough helps me to look at myself and also at any future companion and to take notice when I am not enough. I believe that if you are in a committed relationship each of you should be enough for the other. It doesn't mean that the relationship still won't have issues or need work. It also doesn't mean you don't need additional friendships. I realize that there are additional friendships to be developed and enjoyed. These friendships should always be appropriate and let go immediately when they are not. If you have to hang on to a relationship and not be forthright and honest about it then the committed relationship needs to go. Hence mine did.
I do recognize that being apart from this man is best for both of us as I just wasn't enough for him. It doesn't make it any easier. My heart is quite torn as I cared very deeply for him. I have cried an ocean of tears and continue to do so. I only hope the eventual healing process for myself is healthy and thorough.
Does time really heal all wounds?? I really wish I didn't have to find out but this time I will. Enough is enough for me.
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Colour Quiz...
Colour Quiz. -got this from How About Orange blog.
I am a Fire Personality, drawn to reds and oranges. I am vivacious, charming, passionate, tend to attract people, and do not shy away from attention. My emotions are strong and my moods shift quickly. Aren't I cute!! LOL
Interestingly enough I have neutral decorations with red pillows and a red blanket on the couch. Its just the right touch with colour.
I am a Fire Personality, drawn to reds and oranges. I am vivacious, charming, passionate, tend to attract people, and do not shy away from attention. My emotions are strong and my moods shift quickly. Aren't I cute!! LOL
Interestingly enough I have neutral decorations with red pillows and a red blanket on the couch. Its just the right touch with colour.
Canceled Birthday...do not send any wishes...
Yesterday was my canceled birthday. It went well. I worked on moving things back into the extra bedroom in an orderly manner. I went to lunch with DD and mom. I really didn't want to go but went anyway. Personally I was quite ill all day long but that has to do with me being so sad. I tried to convince them to go on another day. They insisted. It made them happy. They enjoyed lunch and the waiter was fun.
I then spent the rest of the day watching movies. I just love Sense & Sensibility and Pride & Prejudice.
And life goes on. I miss you G and now I am the older.
I then spent the rest of the day watching movies. I just love Sense & Sensibility and Pride & Prejudice.
And life goes on. I miss you G and now I am the older.
The Renter...Day 52, 53...313,312...30day Ntc-26days...72 hr Ntc-24 hours...
The Renter quit spending the night at the home by Thursday night. No more whiny dog or smelly snakes or RUDE Renter. There was a slight communication error regarding moving things Friday night. I closed up the house at 9:30pm and went to bed, although, I left the garage and back gate unlocked expecting them to pick up the rest of their items. The Renter had the impression that they could not come onto the property anymore. That's not how a 72 hour notice works and you would think that they would have called and let me know that they were out front and there to remove the rest of their things. Whatever.
Saturday things were moved but since it was dark one of the movers copped out and didn't want to move the rest of the things in the dark. Whatever. The Renter did call this time and let me know that they would get everything Sunday morning at 9am and that they were hungry and going to eat. At least they remembered how to dial a cell phone this time.
Sunday everything was gone by approximately 10:30am. All Gone. Such a relief and a much more healthy situation. Even though The Renter went over the 72 Hours I was happy to have things moved so soon. Good thing The Renter didn't realize the 72 Hour Notice was a BIG Ole BLUFF (maybe). Had they called me on it I may have had to stick with the original 30 day notice. I should learn to play poker. I hear that is all about how well you bluff. Nah, better not push my luck.
Saturday things were moved but since it was dark one of the movers copped out and didn't want to move the rest of the things in the dark. Whatever. The Renter did call this time and let me know that they would get everything Sunday morning at 9am and that they were hungry and going to eat. At least they remembered how to dial a cell phone this time.
Sunday everything was gone by approximately 10:30am. All Gone. Such a relief and a much more healthy situation. Even though The Renter went over the 72 Hours I was happy to have things moved so soon. Good thing The Renter didn't realize the 72 Hour Notice was a BIG Ole BLUFF (maybe). Had they called me on it I may have had to stick with the original 30 day notice. I should learn to play poker. I hear that is all about how well you bluff. Nah, better not push my luck.
Friday, October 22, 2010
The Renter Day 51...314 days...30 day Notice day 27...72 hr Notice- 48 hours...
Well, the 72 hour notice did the trick and lit a fire under The Renter. I swear they were going to stay forever or at least until the end of the 30 days. Why do people do that??? Don't answer, I realize there is no answer. Actually mom had the answer for me, its because it was more convenient for them to stay than making the effort to move.
The Renter went out early yesterday and obtained a new dwelling and began moving items. Yeah for both of us. A much more healthy situation. More upside--no more neurotic dog. No more rude renter. No more smelly snakes.
DD was funny and mentioned that since the room was already cleaned out I should advertise and take in another renter. That all renters are not like that. I just wanted to laugh hysterically. Instead I gave her "the look" and said no thanks I'd rather go broke than insane.
48 hours and counting!!!
The Renter went out early yesterday and obtained a new dwelling and began moving items. Yeah for both of us. A much more healthy situation. More upside--no more neurotic dog. No more rude renter. No more smelly snakes.
DD was funny and mentioned that since the room was already cleaned out I should advertise and take in another renter. That all renters are not like that. I just wanted to laugh hysterically. Instead I gave her "the look" and said no thanks I'd rather go broke than insane.
48 hours and counting!!!
Thursday, October 21, 2010
The Renter...Day 50...315...30 day Notice -day 28... 72 hr Notice...
Where do I begin???
1. The Renter informs me once again AFTER the fact that I will be taking care of the dog during evening hours. No will you or could you because of...
WOW, the rudeness never ends.
2.My new-found discovery of a one-day notice in the rental agreement makes it necessary to inform The Renter that they need to move out and I also had to post a notice of 72 hours on their door. This was unpleasant and quite a shock to The Renter--me too. Who knew??? My bad. :)
3. I have had a migraine since Sunday and been sick to my stomach for quite awhile.
4. I have learned that I would rather swallow a box full of steel nails than have another renter in my home or the one I have right now.
5. I am really, really sick of human contact at the moment. Any thought of "getting away from it all" or visiting other people makes me physically ill. Plans for a trip to "get away" does include "getting away from ALL humans". Any suggestions???
1. The Renter informs me once again AFTER the fact that I will be taking care of the dog during evening hours. No will you or could you because of...
WOW, the rudeness never ends.
2.My new-found discovery of a one-day notice in the rental agreement makes it necessary to inform The Renter that they need to move out and I also had to post a notice of 72 hours on their door. This was unpleasant and quite a shock to The Renter--me too. Who knew??? My bad. :)
3. I have had a migraine since Sunday and been sick to my stomach for quite awhile.
4. I have learned that I would rather swallow a box full of steel nails than have another renter in my home or the one I have right now.
5. I am really, really sick of human contact at the moment. Any thought of "getting away from it all" or visiting other people makes me physically ill. Plans for a trip to "get away" does include "getting away from ALL humans". Any suggestions???
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
Rental Agreement...
Turns out I was lucky enough to word my agreement that The Renter signed that they would move out when asked to move out, which means no court action is necessary and The Renter is trespassing if they don't move out when asked to move out. I actually worded it that when asked to move out they would move out, which means that they would actually have to move out the day they are asked to move out. Wow, very cool!!! I actually do not have to wait 30 days!!! Double cool!!! Nothing like vague language to get you every time.
OMG--doing a happy dance, now!!!
Have I written MOVE OUT enough yet??!!!! Wow, my two most favorite words!!!
Hey Renter!!! you need to MOVE OUT TODAY!!!
OMG--doing a happy dance, now!!!
Have I written MOVE OUT enough yet??!!!! Wow, my two most favorite words!!!
Hey Renter!!! you need to MOVE OUT TODAY!!!
The Renter...Day 49...316...Notice day 29.
Last night I came home to a note regarding an item of mine that The Renter broke. I've had this item for over 20 years. There was no offer of replacement. Just a lousy note with "sorry" on it. I know that if I broke anything of The Renter's there would not only be an offer to replace it, I would replace what I broke as soon as possible and I would speak to them in person about the breakage. No ifs, ands or buts about it. It gets replaced.
I also know that if I need to move from a place that I am staying, I move. I get out immediately. I beg, borrow or barter and get out. There is NO REASON to stay in ANY situation that is unpleasant or unhealthy. I'd live in my car if I had to.
I just do not understand people. It makes me physically ill to even think about going home let alone go home.
I also know that if I need to move from a place that I am staying, I move. I get out immediately. I beg, borrow or barter and get out. There is NO REASON to stay in ANY situation that is unpleasant or unhealthy. I'd live in my car if I had to.
I just do not understand people. It makes me physically ill to even think about going home let alone go home.
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Dumplin kim&sam...
Started Dumplin pattern last night. I needed something that was a brainless knit. This is a really quick knit and am using up all my leftover yarn from Kimmy & Samantha. I don't know how some people got two Dumplins out of the left over yarn but they did. They must be really tight knitters. I can't wait to felt it. I am going to put in a ring on one and then use a wooden spool on the other to link the straps together. and wrap left over yarn around the spool. Hopefully it will be as cute as I imagine it to be.
The Renter...Day 48..317...Notice day 30.
Again The Renter informs me after the fact that I'll be taking care of the neurotic dog. Wow! I think this is very rude.
And a 30 day notice begins today!!! I will be consulting with an attorney tomorrow to make certain everything is in order so that on Nov 18, I can move everything out of my home and put it on the front lawn that day and change the locks, just in case. I want to make certain that I do everything correctly and by the book. Boy, and do those snakes really smell! It will be a plus to not have them either, although I will admit they are pretty quiet.
And a 30 day notice begins today!!! I will be consulting with an attorney tomorrow to make certain everything is in order so that on Nov 18, I can move everything out of my home and put it on the front lawn that day and change the locks, just in case. I want to make certain that I do everything correctly and by the book. Boy, and do those snakes really smell! It will be a plus to not have them either, although I will admit they are pretty quiet.
Monday, October 18, 2010
Sammy & Kimmy...complete.
I finished Sammy. I felted her more than recommended and I am ok with this. I did loose cabling detail. She is still very big. approx. 12x20 and I did not do an inside pocket on her.
And here is both of them.
Sunday, October 17, 2010
The Renter...Days 45,46,47...320,319,318.
The Renter...Day 45...320
The Renter unfortunately has the misguided conception that the world revolves around them. Weeks previously I had informed The Renter that they were to take the dog (that they like to ignore but love having power over--possibly more on this later regarding my opinion of this unusual but common subject) with them. As the dog is a neurotic insane mess!! A danger to herself and others but what do I know?? Friday rolls around and all is supposedly well. The Renter takes the dog for a walk in the early evening and then has the gall to high-tail it out of the house without so much as a "by your leave" or "hey, could you watch my dog for a little while? I need to be gone for about ____ (insert time-period here). NO, none of that is forthcoming. I inform The Renter that they forgot something. They inform me that they cannot take the dog with them. GEE, it certainly would have been nice to know this, but no, that's certainly not part of the deal. I didn't realize I needed to put "consideration and respect" in the rental agreement and I am NOT A BABYSITTING DOG WATCHER--THAT'S EXTRA!!!
uh,oh... I feel a stupid angry comment coming on.
I inform The Renter that if they do not take the dog with them that I will be taking it to the pound. (EEEK!!!! I hear you say. Would you really do it?? Yes, says I. I really am that stupid). Especially when the animal is dangerous. I do not normally recommend putting an animal down. There are exceptions to every rule and this happens to be one of them. This animal is dangerous. When an animal is afraid all the time like this one is, this is dangerous in any situation. Nuff said.
I actually do have a little bit of brains and decide to wait. What me???? Patience??? WOW, have I learned what a virtue it is and it is running way, WAY low in my corner!!! The insane neurotic dog decides to actually start throwing herself against the door. Oh, what a horrible sound this is. This is very unnerving and the cat and I jump every time she does this. I finally call The Renter and inform them that the dog is doing this and I called to let them know. All I need is for the dog to get hurt and then guess who gets the blame? The insane neurotic dog does this for a half hour. It's awful. The Renter walks in and picks up the dog.
It is a wonder that they couldn't have done this in the first place. I really didn't understand why the dog, who is happier to be with The Renter, couldn't wait in the car. But what to I know, heh??
The Renter...Day 46...319.
no issues. Other than making the suggestion they ask me to watch the dog BEFORE they leave not after.
The Renter...Day 47...318...
Turns out noon is 7:15pm, a phone call is obviously not an option for The Renter. This is good to know. Tomorrow a 30 day notice will be given. I have no more patience. I hope that the cat, the dog and I survive until Nov 18. I know The Renter will since the world revolves around them. I am looking forward to the new countdown!! BE WARNED AMERICA!!!! THE RENTER IS COMING TO A NEIGHBORHOOD NEAR YOU!!! I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU!!! AND VERY, VERY HAPPY FOR MEEEEE!!!
The Renter unfortunately has the misguided conception that the world revolves around them. Weeks previously I had informed The Renter that they were to take the dog (that they like to ignore but love having power over--possibly more on this later regarding my opinion of this unusual but common subject) with them. As the dog is a neurotic insane mess!! A danger to herself and others but what do I know?? Friday rolls around and all is supposedly well. The Renter takes the dog for a walk in the early evening and then has the gall to high-tail it out of the house without so much as a "by your leave" or "hey, could you watch my dog for a little while? I need to be gone for about ____ (insert time-period here). NO, none of that is forthcoming. I inform The Renter that they forgot something. They inform me that they cannot take the dog with them. GEE, it certainly would have been nice to know this, but no, that's certainly not part of the deal. I didn't realize I needed to put "consideration and respect" in the rental agreement and I am NOT A BABYSITTING DOG WATCHER--THAT'S EXTRA!!!
uh,oh... I feel a stupid angry comment coming on.
I inform The Renter that if they do not take the dog with them that I will be taking it to the pound. (EEEK!!!! I hear you say. Would you really do it?? Yes, says I. I really am that stupid). Especially when the animal is dangerous. I do not normally recommend putting an animal down. There are exceptions to every rule and this happens to be one of them. This animal is dangerous. When an animal is afraid all the time like this one is, this is dangerous in any situation. Nuff said.
I actually do have a little bit of brains and decide to wait. What me???? Patience??? WOW, have I learned what a virtue it is and it is running way, WAY low in my corner!!! The insane neurotic dog decides to actually start throwing herself against the door. Oh, what a horrible sound this is. This is very unnerving and the cat and I jump every time she does this. I finally call The Renter and inform them that the dog is doing this and I called to let them know. All I need is for the dog to get hurt and then guess who gets the blame? The insane neurotic dog does this for a half hour. It's awful. The Renter walks in and picks up the dog.
It is a wonder that they couldn't have done this in the first place. I really didn't understand why the dog, who is happier to be with The Renter, couldn't wait in the car. But what to I know, heh??
The Renter...Day 46...319.
no issues. Other than making the suggestion they ask me to watch the dog BEFORE they leave not after.
The Renter...Day 47...318...
Turns out noon is 7:15pm, a phone call is obviously not an option for The Renter. This is good to know. Tomorrow a 30 day notice will be given. I have no more patience. I hope that the cat, the dog and I survive until Nov 18. I know The Renter will since the world revolves around them. I am looking forward to the new countdown!! BE WARNED AMERICA!!!! THE RENTER IS COMING TO A NEIGHBORHOOD NEAR YOU!!! I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU!!! AND VERY, VERY HAPPY FOR MEEEEE!!!
Friday, October 15, 2010
Thursday, October 14, 2010
22 Leaves. Sammy.
22 Leaves - I am now almost done with the 2nd clue on this shawl. This has been a challenging knit. It is difficult enough to keep my attention and not so difficult as to be frustrating. It's also nice to be back with my US4 needles again. Those 10.5 hurt my hands. I can't wait to get it finished and then Kool-aid dye it. I've been wanting to try dyeing again and I really like how the water goes from coloured to clear when its done and it only takes about 20 minutes.
Sammy is huge. I wonder if she's supposed to be this big. All that's left now are pockets and straps. I guess I will really have to felt this bag.
Sammy is huge. I wonder if she's supposed to be this big. All that's left now are pockets and straps. I guess I will really have to felt this bag.
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
After Hours---FINI!!
Done. It's not blocked yet. I'm just pleased its finished. This is really a quick, easy knit. For some reason I just could not knit this very well. Must be the BIG needles I had to use. Yeah, I'm sure that was it. It just ended up being one of "those" patterns for me. You know the kind, the one you just have to knit, yet when you do you drop stitches, have too many stitches, don't have enough stitches, and it just seems to go all wrong each time you touch it. It's done and my after hours can be filled with drinking again. ha
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
The Renter... Day 41...324.
no issues. The cat is still alive. Hurray! Here's what sweet Mix looks like now.
She is part Manx and had beat up a pit bull before. Hopefully she's too mean to die.
Monday, October 11, 2010
My Finished Kimmy...
Hurray!! The felting process was very interesting. I used Knit Picks 100% Andes Wool Bulky and it felted very quickly. It was also great to knit with.
The size of my bag before felting was approx. 18"x22" It was huge, gargantuan!
After the first wash it was 15" x 17" -still a little big.
After 2nd wash it came out at approximately 13"x15" - still big but I think its supposed to be that way. Instead of the knots in the straps I undid them and wrapped the straps. It's a much cleaner nicer look and I borrowed this idea from a co-KAl-er.
I am now diligently working on Sam and my After Hours shawl. AH needs to be done by Friday at noon to qualify for a prize. It takes 20-30 min to do one of the points on the border. And there are a lot of points. I am one-third done with the border points. ugh.
Softball...the end...
Last night was our last game and it was cold, windy and rainy. Brrr! The good thing is we had great weather the whole season except for last night and last night was still ok for it being fall and all. The last game was a terribly sad one for us. The other team was first to bat and got 11 runs in the first inning. At one point, they all started hitting left handed and started walking the bases. We were horrible.
Usually we aren't this bad. I don't know what the heck was wrong with us. We looked like the old black and white "field stone cops." I think that's the name. We dropped balls even when they were handed to us; we scrambled when there was no scrambling to do; we ran away from the ball; we couldn't find the ball when it was in front of our faces and at our feet. I think you get the picture. My best friend yelled out, "Hey Team United are you sure you don't need another beer!!" Too Funny! The umpires even started cheating for us. Calling people safe when they were out. Calling balls when it was a strike. We lost 16-5.
Most of the teams we played certainly should have been in the Gold or Silver league not Bronze. One girl's boyfriend who came to watch stated he had never laughed so hard at game before! On a positive note: I did get my first and only run of the season last night, Yeah ME!! DD got her's the week before! Yeah US!!
Usually we aren't this bad. I don't know what the heck was wrong with us. We looked like the old black and white "field stone cops." I think that's the name. We dropped balls even when they were handed to us; we scrambled when there was no scrambling to do; we ran away from the ball; we couldn't find the ball when it was in front of our faces and at our feet. I think you get the picture. My best friend yelled out, "Hey Team United are you sure you don't need another beer!!" Too Funny! The umpires even started cheating for us. Calling people safe when they were out. Calling balls when it was a strike. We lost 16-5.
Most of the teams we played certainly should have been in the Gold or Silver league not Bronze. One girl's boyfriend who came to watch stated he had never laughed so hard at game before! On a positive note: I did get my first and only run of the season last night, Yeah ME!! DD got her's the week before! Yeah US!!
The Renter...Day 38,39,40...327,326,325...
No issues. The dog greeted me and the cat at the door the other day. Luckily I had a feeling not to let the cat in. Lots of times she darts in and there is nothing I can do to stop her.
Friday, October 8, 2010
16 months...
I usually don't mind getting older. I didn't mind turning 30 or 40, like some people I have seen. I don't believe I will mind 50 when I get there either. I actually enjoy growing older and feel that I get better in every way every year. I enjoy life and am constantly learning.
This month is different. This month is my birthday month and this is the month that I get to be older than my older brother, which greatly saddens me. My sadness is overwhelming. I know I am not the first to have to experience this and I know I won't be the last. I just don't want it to be me right now. I hate it and have essentially canceled this birthday this year, as much as that can be done.
I informed my guitar teacher that I was "feeling the blues" and why, and he stepped up to the plate and we are going with a "Blues" theme this month. I really like it and am having a terrific time with it. I just don't have any rhythm, which is important with playing the blues. I'll get it eventually. It will just take some time, like everything.
I miss you very much G.
This month is different. This month is my birthday month and this is the month that I get to be older than my older brother, which greatly saddens me. My sadness is overwhelming. I know I am not the first to have to experience this and I know I won't be the last. I just don't want it to be me right now. I hate it and have essentially canceled this birthday this year, as much as that can be done.
I informed my guitar teacher that I was "feeling the blues" and why, and he stepped up to the plate and we are going with a "Blues" theme this month. I really like it and am having a terrific time with it. I just don't have any rhythm, which is important with playing the blues. I'll get it eventually. It will just take some time, like everything.
I miss you very much G.
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Knitting...Kimmy felted bag
Here's a picture of Kimmy so far. She is approx. 18"x22" unfelted. I can't wait to felt her. This is my first felted bag. The 4th clue is out in this mystery knit along (KAL), and there are only a couple of things to complete to get her done. So exciting!
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
The Boy Friend thinks its ok to...
-Lie by Omission-depending on intent and sincerity;
-Have lunch with another woman and not tell me because he wants to keep it a secret;
-Send same woman a birthday card;
-Receive a thank you note from same woman and not let me read it;
-Flirt with same woman on a weekly basis on an online forum and inform me that he is tapering off his contact with same woman (yeah right).
-status on same forum is single. Yet, I thought we were in a relationship. Guess not.
-Insist on being invited to a family get together yet has no problem excluding me when it suits him and sees nothing wrong with his excluding me. And uses private confidences I have told him against me to exclude me, which makes it a double whammy of hurt.
-Try's to point out behavior that he has that I exhibit to prove that I am a hypocrite, which seriously demeans him and makes his behavior even more questionable.
-uses my words against me to twist their meaning into something else so he doesn't look so bad or they become more useful for him to harm me.
-Can't miss out on any fun even when seriously ill, which really puts a damper on the fun when you have to take him to Urgent Care because he is about to go into cardiac arrest because he didn't hydrate while giving himself food poisoning,even though he was informed not to drink that wine because it was too old. (yes, wine gets old and it doesn't keep for forever).
Ahem...ex boyfriend now for the 3rd and last time, and my intent is seriously sincere. Possibly more rants later. sorry in advance.
-Have lunch with another woman and not tell me because he wants to keep it a secret;
-Send same woman a birthday card;
-Receive a thank you note from same woman and not let me read it;
-Flirt with same woman on a weekly basis on an online forum and inform me that he is tapering off his contact with same woman (yeah right).
-status on same forum is single. Yet, I thought we were in a relationship. Guess not.
-Insist on being invited to a family get together yet has no problem excluding me when it suits him and sees nothing wrong with his excluding me. And uses private confidences I have told him against me to exclude me, which makes it a double whammy of hurt.
-Try's to point out behavior that he has that I exhibit to prove that I am a hypocrite, which seriously demeans him and makes his behavior even more questionable.
-uses my words against me to twist their meaning into something else so he doesn't look so bad or they become more useful for him to harm me.
-Can't miss out on any fun even when seriously ill, which really puts a damper on the fun when you have to take him to Urgent Care because he is about to go into cardiac arrest because he didn't hydrate while giving himself food poisoning,even though he was informed not to drink that wine because it was too old. (yes, wine gets old and it doesn't keep for forever).
Ahem...ex boyfriend now for the 3rd and last time, and my intent is seriously sincere. Possibly more rants later. sorry in advance.
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